Special Update from Religious Education

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OK Folks, the neck of the funnel is here!

For quite some time now, I’ve been talking about preparing for the trickiest part of our facility improvements, a period of time when the space available to our congregation for programming is most scarce. That moment is upon us, it seems. It’s a bit sooner than expected, but as the news of the new schedule for construction has settled in for me, I grow increasingly excited, not just for getting it done (that is really fun to think about!), but also for the opportunity it will afford us for the next few months as we all slide over to make room for everyone in the space we still have.

I have no doubt that some of you are going to hear this news and consider skipping church for the next few months. I hope you don’t! Hop aboard for a congregational experiment that will help us move out into our new space with new ideas of who we want to be as a whole community! 

What’s happening?

I will return to this post and update details if they change. They have changed A LOT in the past two weeks… and I think it’s helpful for you to be able to find current info, so consider this a place to keep up with goings on! (If you have questions that aren’t addressed, feel free to reach out!)

[As of Tuesday, May 20th, 2018]- 

  • Construction will begin here at church in the downstairs on JUNE 11th (an adjustment that will allow us to first welcome the Con Tutti Concert on June 2nd before closing off the downstairs.)
  • Religious Education programming is now living into our summer balcony plan, which you can read more about below.
  • Between now and June 11th, we will continue to have the nursery open downstairs for families of children up to age 4.
  • Beginning June 11th, the nursery will be moving to Joanne Connolly’s office which is located just through the door near the choir alcove in the sanctuary (the landing of the back staircase)
  • Beginning June 11th, there will be no access to bathrooms in the building until the project is completed. There will be portable toilets located outside the church in the side garden closest to the State St fire. (Our original plan was to have portable trucks- the more civilized option- but the vendors do not have a unit they can spare for the whole summer, so unfortunately, we are going rustic except for a few special event weekends.
  • Construction is expected to be completed by September 1st (or sooner!)
  • (Scroll to the bottom of this post for some additional background on the capital campaign stuff)

What will Religious Education programming look like?  

Start here: I suspect if you have spent much time here at South Church, you’ve noticed that we try to help children and youth feel welcomed and engaged when they are in our sanctuary on Sunday mornings. That is not a new idea, it is a core value of our congregation, and of our religious leaders. Children begin every Sunday in worship at South church, and throughout the year we intentionally program multi-generational services designed for our children to remain in the service for the whole worship. We have activity packs available for children to help keep their hands busy while they take in the sights and sounds of our community in worship together, and during multi-generational services, you might notice a variety of other adjustments: Interactive music (sung in rounds, or incorporating movement), a multi-part story for all ages that offers extra opportunities for children to move, and draws them back into the days lesson in a way that appeals to a range of learning styles. Over the past two years, we have increased the number of times that children and youth have the opportunity to help tell stories, share reflections, play or sing music, and otherwise be a part of creating our worship. All of these strategies help children feel like they belong in our worship space, and there is a lot of evidence to suggest that feeling of belonging is important if we want them to grow up and continue to engage in Unitarian Universalist congregations as adults.

The plan: for Religious education for the next few months is all about exploring the ideas in the paragraph I just shared above. At the end of construction, my hope is that we will have learned a little more about the gifts of worshiping together as a whole church, and that we also will have worked together to problem solve some of the challenges.

Logistics: We will be creating a resource area in the open landing outside the balcony, where families can come and chose materials that will help their child engage with the topic of the worship. Children may choose to bring those materials down to the sanctuary to sit together with parents, or they may choose to come sit in the balcony with other children, parents, and RE volunteers and engage with materials in that space. The resources available will change over the course of the experiment, reflecting the worship themes, and keeping fresh options for returning children so that engagement remains high.

For children who do not want to be in worship space, the balcony landing will also offer space to sit and explore, create art, make poems, do some yoga stretches, or read a book.

Essentially, it’s taking pew packs to the next level!

In September: we will have a whole new program space to move back to, and I think this experiment will inspire lots of ideas about what we want our new page to say!

Orientation For Parents and RE volunteers:  Was held on Sunday, May 6th, between services (10-11am), an informative place to ask questions, raise concerns, and share ideas!  It was followed by a congregational meeting which provided LOTS more details about our whole church. If you would like copies of the materials provided during either of these gatherings, reach out to a staff member!

Orientation for Kids: [now ongoing by balcony volunteers] During the whole class orientations in early may we asked children to share what they like about being in worship in the sanctuary, and what they don’t like so much. I will share that here, just to help underscore how cool I think the next few months will be! Our children are really intuitive, and finding new ways to help them join us in community on Sundays will be a gift to all of us. I need help to do it, but I think it’s gonna be fun!

Kids say about worship...

I will be posting descriptions of volunteer roles, sign up links, and other resources soon. I am always happy to hear thoughts, questions, and especially- Ideas!!

Sending love to all of you!


 

Some other details on the current construction project (for those who feel out of the loop):

  • Our original capital improvement plan to renovate Karnan house (our former building across the street that provided a significant portion of our church programming space) did not go as expected, and the decision was made some time last fall to sell Karnan and re-envision our plan- in large part because the building at #73 Court St became available, offering a different set of opportunities for our community.
  • The decision was made to purchase the building at #73 Court St early this year
  • Karnan House was sold this winter.
  • Originally, our plan was to renovate #73 Court, making it accessible as a second event space, and creating offices and meeting space on the first floor. Then, after that project, the plan was to move the staff down to #73 and begin renovations here at 292 State, transforming what is now office space into three additional program spaces, as well as to beautify/update the social hall, create storage for chairs, and adjust the restroom facilities.
  • Due to a variety of complications, which the board will lay out this coming Sunday at the congregational meeting, the renovations at #73 Court need to be put on hold for the moment. However, details are basically all in place to allow us to begin renovations here at the church, so we’re getting ready to do just that!
  • Staff offices will be moving down to #73 Court, to set up in the building ‘as is’ (We just can’t use that building as an event space until the second floor is reinforced).

 

 

April nUUs from Religious Education

A community of Emergence

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Senior Youth (packed into Kirsten’s living room) for immigration justice movie/discussion as they prepare to travel west to learn more about the border crisis this June.

Hello all,

I am delighted to share with you the outcome of our shared plate collection in Children’s Chapel this past Sunday! As you know, our whole congregation has recently navigated the process of nominating and then voting on which organizations will be the recipients of our shared plate collection for the coming year. We extend that process to our children by letting them choose one of the 10 chosen organizations.  I’ve counted the ballots, and the kids chose Footprints Food Pantry! Stay tuned to hear what our year’s worth of children’s chapel collections yields, as well as a plan for a kid service project to further help the great work at FFP!

In this post…

  • Family resources for this month’s theme of Emergence: scroll to the last part of this newsletter, enjoy, share what your family discovers together!
  • Families Tuugether – April 14th- A fun night for kids and some inspired free time for parents! Scroll to ‘read more’ below.
  • Sparks and Flames final gathering..( 5th-6th and 7th-8th grade social groups)  Friday, May 4th, at 7pm- End of year celebration with a few rounds of everyone’s favorite game! Scroll to ‘read more’ below.
  • May theme talk  Scroll to ‘read more’ below.
    • Online: wear your pj’s and join from home on your computer! SIGN UP
    • In-Person: Sunday, May 6th b/w srvcs (10:15-10:55). Child care in nursery! SIGN UP
  • Sunday RE happenings: 
    • April 15: Spirit Play at 9am, Theme workshops at 9 and 11 explore emergence of ideas, Coming of Age meets at DPC @ 11am, 6th-7th grade meet at 11 in the Spirit Play room. OWL 7 will Meet at 4pm in the main office, Senior youth meet off-site (see your email for details!)
    • April 22nd: Emergence and the Earth- holiday week all ages workshop hosted by the green sanctuary team! No COA, OWL, or Senior youth this week.
    • April 29th: Spirit Play at 9am, Theme workshop at 9 and 11 explore emergence of awareness, Coming of Age meets at DPC @ 11am, 6th-7th grade meet at 11 in the Spirit Play room. OWL 7 will Meet at 4pm in the main office, Senior youth meet at 4pm in the ladies parlour.
    • May 6th: Children’s Chapel– introduces the theme of Creativity!

[“Normal RE program day”: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

Read More… 

Families Tuugether – April 14th- 4:30-8pm  Open to children 8 months through Sixth grade, Families Tuugether is a popular program for families of young kids; an opportunity for parents to reconnect and to recharge. Offered monthly during the church year, children are dropped off at South Church at 4:30pm with a potluck dish to share (Ready to serve, please.), and parents head up to the sanctuary for a short group gathering before heading out to enjoy some quite time. Children will strengthen friendships, enjoy a movie, and play fun games. Parents return to get their child no later than 8pmPlease note: Families MUST RSVP (kirsten@southchurch-uu.org)  if they plan to come to this event, so that we are able to meet the staffing needs. Program is be closed after 25 children register, to ensure we have a safe and fun event.

Sparks and Flames final gathering ( 5th-6th and 7th-8th grade social groups)  Friday, May 4th, at 7-9pm. End of year celebration with a few rounds of everyone’s favorite game! Bring a water bottle, a favorite snack, and wear sneakers. Please RSVP so I know you’re child is coming!

May theme talks:

ONLINE – Wednesday, April 18th, 8pm in your living room! This gathering is part deepening, and part an opportunity to learn about how our evolving RE program is designed to better equip parents and our larger congregation to engage with our children and youth. Come if you’re curious, come if you are able to volunteer in May, come if you’re a parent who wants to know more about how to engage with your kids about our shared church community! Click Here to Sign up.

In Person – Sunday, May 6th between services from 10:15-10:55. This gathering is always a sweet opportunity to share a little, make some new connections, and brainstorm some ideas about how our whole community might explore creativity as the month of May unfolds. Childcare is available in the nursery! Join us!!

Family resources for the month of April: ‘We are a community of emergence’ 

[Pssss…. The secret word to enter the book giveaway this month is: tulips!- mention it to Kirsten to have your family entered to win!]  

One of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. [From Soul Matters RE Packet:] These resources support parents as they try to live out and engage our themes with their children. We can ask “What does it mean to be a parent of Balance” or “What does it mean to be a family of Balance?” As you use these resources to engage these questions, keep in mind some additional ways to use them with other parents or your church community:  

  • Reflect with those in your family.
  • Share and discuss them with other parents or another family.
  • Use them in a Parent Circle that meets on Sunday afternoon or mid-week.
Fun Cell phone Apps!
  • Botanicula- a point-and-click adventure game that puts players in control of a quintet of tiny beings that are a cross between insect and plant. Its wordless story — everything is presented through images — begins with one of these creatures encountering a spider-like monster intent on gobbling up the big, beautiful tree. Themes of emergence and environmentalism.
  • Toca Nature- What emerges from a walk in virtual nature? Parents need to know that like all Toca Boca apps, Toca Nature is totally open-ended, allowing for pure creative exploration. Kids can build natural elements — trees, lakes, and mountains — and observe what happens as animals move in and food sources abound. Interaction is slow and calm, just like a peaceful walk in a tranquil forest; kids will need to some patience to quietly observe everything that happens. Unlike a real forest, this one is entirely non-violent: usually omnivorous bears and foxes are content with mushrooms and berries and ignore the cute little bunny rabbits that are hopping around.
Youtube Videos that celebrate the emergence of new life:
Join an Online Conversation as part of the emerging conversation in UU about racism
  • EmbraceRace Community Conversation- An EmbraceRace community conversation online, every 4th Tuesday, starting at 5:30 pm PT, 8:30 pm ET. A free, monthly online series providing information, insights, and resources to caregivers on a range of topics related to race and children. We invite guests with relevant experiences and expertise to join each conversation with the EmbraceRace community.
 Resources for the emerging conversation in UU about racism
Articles for parents:
Movies for families about emergence:
  • The Prince of Egypt (animated, rated PG) for Passover. The story of the emergence of the Jews out of slavery as told in the Book of Exodus. *please note- this movie is based on The Book of Exodus …. There are scenes of slaves being whipped, hit, and verbally and physically abused. There are depictions of babies dropped and thrown into crocodile-infested waters. Moses kills a slave driver. While competing against Rameses in a chariot race, Rameses is on a road above the one Moses is on, and Moses looks up and says “it’s not much of a view” as Rameses’ short uniform exposes his rear. It’s worth mentioning that, unlike almost every Bible story presented on film, the characters in this movie are people of color.” https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/the-prince-of-egypt
  • The Fox and the Child for Earth Day– The emerging friendship between a girl and a wild fox. Scenes with a bear and wolves might make this film too scary for children under 8. It feels a bit like “The Little Prince.”
  • Lemurs; Island of Madagascar (documentary) for Earth Day- The emergence and evolution of Lemurs in this film appropriate for children and families, 40 min.
  • A Beautiful Planet– Views of Earth from Space, as well as evidence of destruction caused by humans.
  • Boy and the World for Earth Day- Animated award winning Brazilian film about a boy’s emerging journey to find his father from countryside to big city, making it a good film for environmentalism, too.
Reflection on Intention, Perseverance, Balance, Emergence (the past 4 themes):

How has your family responded to each theme during these past few months? The arc of the themes is intentional. In January, you were invited to think about setting an intention. In February, the theme of perseverance gave you a lens with which to keep going on the intention you set. In March, perhaps it was time to balance the intention with real life, as well as balance the challenges of keeping your intention. This month, you are invited to reflect on what has emerged from your intention? Perhaps it is something totally unexpected. One part of emergence is that we can’t control what emerges.  (this observation was offered by Bob Meiss, a UU congregant in Livermore, CA)

Our monthly church-wide themes this year have been:

A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

March nUUs from Religious Education

A community of Balance

Writing Valentines for local social justice groups
The late season snow is falling, 
wet and heavy-- A perfect metaphor for this moment I think, 
as it offers both beauty and frustration-- 
longing for warmth and clinging to the quiet chill of winter
another transition of seasons 
time passing
I'm glad to be home so I can pull my children close
remind them that this feeling of transition is a part of life
that we must always remember
through snowfall and sunshine, 
through wind and through stillness 
to love each other
to love each other

In this post:

  • Senior Youth Worship this Sunday, March 11th- Don’t miss it, they’re brilliant!
  • Rescheduled: Sparks and Flames meet together at Hilltop Fun Center! Friday, March 16th, at 7pm- RSVP required!
  • Families Tuugether – March 17th (bumped one week so we could host Seacoast Family Promise) read more below.
  • Demonstration for Gun Reform- March 24th  https://www.facebook.com/events/1010039902480611/
  • Pancake Breakfast! – March 25th- read more below
  • Volunteering this month:
    • Sign up for Sunday Volunteer Spots
      • March 11: Fibonacci numbers- Balance and the mystery of math in nature!
      • March 18: Balance of our Bodies: Movement and food!
      • March 25: Balance in how we see the world- representation in books and media
    • April RE theme planning ONLINE – Come one, come all! Wed, February 14th, 8pm in your living room! Parents and interested volunteers Click Here to Sign up. This is a great opportunity to engage from the comfort of your home- video or call in- includes RE overview, theme reflection & brainstorm, and a basic volunteer training, too!
  • Sundays this month:
    • March 11th: Sign up to be a workshop volunteer: Fibonacci numbers- Balance and the mystery of math in nature! This week we offer Spirit Play at 9am, Theme workshops at 9 and 11, Coming of Age (meets at DPC), 6th-7th grade at 11 in Karnan. OWL 7 will Meet at 4pm in the parish hall.
    • March 18th: Sign up to be a workshop volunteerBalance of our Bodies: Movement and food! This week we offer Spirit Play at 9am, Theme workshops at 9 and 11, Coming of Age (meets at DPC), 6th-7th grade meet at 11 in the Spirit Play classroom. OWL 7 and Senior Youth will Meet at 4pm in the parish hall.
    • March 25th: Sign up to be a workshop volunteerBalance in how we see the world- representation in books and media! This week we offer Spirit Play at 9am, Theme workshops at 9 and 11, Coming of Age meets in the Parish Hall at 11am this week. 6th-7th grade will meet at 11 in the Spirit Play classroom. OWL 7 and Senior Youth will Meet at 4pm.
    • April 1st: Easter Sunday Multigenerational Worship and egg hunt after each service.

[“Normal RE program day”: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

(If you haven’t already, please REGISTER for the 2017-18 church year!)

Family resources for the month of March: ‘We are a community of balance’ 

[The secret word to enter the book giveaway this month is: snowstorm!- mention it to Kirsten to have your family entered to win!]  One of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. This means there are also lots of opportunities for ideas and inspirations we come across on Sundays at South Church to find their way into our lives throughout the week. This could be very meaningful for your family and for our community.  As we explore themes throughout the year think about ways you might take those conversations home to your dinner tables, night time rituals, car drives, and morning routines.  Here’s a small framework to whet your palate, let me know if you have any great family moments!

[From Soul Matters RE Packet:] These resources support parents as they try to live out and engage our themes with their children. We can ask “What does it mean to be a parent of Balance” or “What does it mean to be a family of Balance?” As you use these resources to engage these questions, keep in mind some additional ways to use them with other parents or your church community:  

  • Reflect with those in your family.
  • Share and discuss them with other parents or another family.
  • Use them in a Parent Circle that meets on Sunday afternoon or mid-week.
A phone app that explores the theme of Balance!

Finger Balance is one of those games that demonstrates the kind of insanely entertaining activities that can only happen on a touchscreen device like the iPad or iPhone. It’s not just balancing a ball on a stick — it’s balancing a ball on a stick with two fingers, which means you have to keep both of your hands in time with one another constantly. And you need to maneuver that stick through a maze that may or may not include moving walls and obstacles. It’s so simple, but it’s crazy fun.

Video:

Teaching the ABCs of Attention, Balance and Compassion: Susan Kaiser Greenland at TEDxStudioCityED- Founder of the Inner Kids program, Susan Kaiser Greenland adapted adult meditation practices for kids, seeing a marked improvement in their capacity to focus, calm themselves, and manage stress. She is also the author of The Mindful Child.

Articles:

3 Biggest Ways to Reduce Your Environmental Impact– Living in balance with the earth from the Omega Center for Sustainable Living

Early-Childhood Education Takes to the Outdoors– Kids in Waldkindergarten, also known as forest kindergarten, are building fires and braving the snow. And they’re all the better for it.

Meditation For Kids: Parents Turn To Mindfulness Practices To Help Children Stay Calm– Overview of why to teach mindfulness to kids.

3 Kid-Friendly Meditations Your Children Will Love

Movies for families about Balance:

Fern Gully, rated G- The magical inhabitants of a rainforest fight to save their home, which is threatened by logging and a polluting force of destruction called Hexxus.

Rio 2, G- It’s a jungle out there for Blu, Jewel and their three kids after they’re hurtled from Rio de Janeiro to the wilds of the Amazon. As Blu tries to fit in, he goes beak-to-beak with the vengeful Nigel, and meets his father-in-law.

Inside Out, PG- After young Riley is uprooted from her Midwest life and moved to San Francisco, her emotions – Joy, Fear, Anger, Disgust and Sadness – conflict on how best to navigate a new city, house, and school.

The Great Math Mystery, NOVA (53 min.) for National Pi Day, 3/14- Fibonacci Numbers, Fractals, Pi and Spirals in nature.

Balance and Justice
Balance and Math, Science
Balance and Seasons
Balance of Life and Death
Interfaith Calendar dates to note:
National & Cultural calendar dates to note:

Here are some more details on the items mentioned above:

Families Tuugether, Saturday, March 17th, 4:30-8pm  Open to children 8 months through Sixth grade, Families Tuugether is a popular program for families of young kids; an opportunity for parents to reconnect and to recharge. Offered monthly during the church year, children are dropped off at South Church at 4:30pm with a potluck dish to share (Ready to serve, please.), and parents head up to the sanctuary for a short group gathering before heading out to enjoy some quite time. Children will strengthen friendships, enjoy a movie, and play fun games. Parents return to get their child no later than 8pmPlease note: Families MUST RSVP (kirsten@southchurch-uu.org)  if they plan to come to this event, so that we are able to meet the staffing needs. Program is be closed after 25 children register, to ensure we have a safe and fun event.

Sparks and Purple flames (social groups for 5-6th and 7-8th grades) On March 16th we will be meeting together at Hilltop Fun Center from 7-9pm for Laser tag and some arcade time. Bring a water bottle, wear sneakers. If you are not registered for this program, email me for details on that! If you are registered, please RSVP so I know you’re coming!

Our monthly church-wide themes this year:

A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

Another Mass shooting… here we are again…

I don’t know what to say, and I’m sure you feel the same way.

Keeping that in mind, I have a few offerings for you in case that helps, and mostly I just want to acknowledge that there is work to do in this world, and I am grateful we are doing it together.

Don’t go it alone. There are a lot of articles out there with suggestions about how to talk with our children after events like the shooting in Florida yesterday, and I’ve included a few below, but the list is far from exhaustive. I think reading through those pieces can be a helpful way to sort out your own feelings, and strategize a bit about how to move forward in our responsibilities as parents of children. I also encourage you to reach out to friends and fellow parents and talk about conversations you’ve had, what seems to help and what doesn’t. None of this is super clear, and no one (including me) can give you the answers because there are very real solutions to this problem, and yet, year after year- shooting after shooting, we seem to be moving backward rather than forward.

Check in with your kids. There is a good chance that they’ve heard about what’s going on if they are in school, and just like us, that they are trying to make sense of whatever they’ve heard. Asking and then really listening to what they’ve heard and what they are feeling can go a long way toward restoring their sense of safety because your inquiry tells them you’re paying attention and you’re looking out for them. Go slow, ask open ended questions so your children can help you understand what they need, and don’t be afraid to put a conversation on hold to think over how you want to say something- by taking our time and being careful we model intention instead of the reactivity that is so prevalent in todays’ media, and that is reassuring.

Let us know what you need. If you have thoughts about how our church community can help to support you or your children with all of this, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me. There are open hours in the sanctuary this week if you are looking for a quiet place to sit. If you have older children (pre-adolescent or teen aged) I would really encourage them to write to their representatives, and I know it doesn’t seem like that helps, but I still believe those letters make a difference, and it is a tangible thing to do in a time when we feel so paralyzed.

I am sending you all so much love. Please reach out if you need anything.

A few Articles:

uua.org family resources for responding to trauma

Lifehacker: How to talk to your kids about mass shootings

Parents.com: How to talk to kids about gun violence

ChildDevelopmentinfo.com: How to talk to kids about violence

 

 

February nUUs from Religious Education

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We will be saying farewell to Karnan House this week. The end of an era.

In this post:

  • Karnan House sale– Volunteers needed Saturday, Feb 10 at 10 am to empty the building!! (looking for sturdy shelves of many sizes? come by Friday between 10 and 2– free to members!!)
  • Schedule changes- please note:
    • Senior Youth Worship has been moved to March 11 (was originally scheduled for February 18th
    • 6th-7th grade Religious Exploration: Upcoming changes: we’ll be starting our class at 11am sharp beginning is a few weeks, due to space changes. Class will meet in Karnan this Sunday, Feb 11th, but our new location is still TBD… Keep an eye out for more news soon~
    • Families Tuugether in MARCH will be bumped one week due to a change in the dates we are hosting Seacoast Family Promise: March 17th is the new date
  • Families Tuugether this week! Saturday, February 10th 4:30-8pm
  • Senior Youth attending Immigration Justice discussion Sunday, Jan 11th at UCC Church in Durham at 11:30am. PLEASE RSVP
  • Program Volunteering:
    • Sign up for February Volunteer Spots <click for info
    • March RE theme planning ONLINE – Come one, come all! Wed, February 14th, 8pm in your living room! Parents and interested volunteers Click Here to Sign up. This is a great opportunity to engage from the comfort of your home- video or call in- includes RE overview, theme reflection & brainstorm, and a basic volunteer training, too!
  • Sundays this month:
    • February 11th: Spirit Plan and Theme workshops at 9 and 11. COA meets in Karnan this week. 6th-7th grade will meet at 11 in Karnan. OWL 7 and Senior Youth will Meet at 4pm!!
    • February 18th: Spirit Play and Theme workshops at 9 and 11. No COA this week. 6th-7th grade will meet at 11. OWL 7 and Senior Youth will Meet at 4pm!!
    • February 25th: Holiday RE program day (all ages workshops. No COA, 6th-7th grade class, OWL 7 or Senior Youth this week!!
    • March 2nd: Children’s Chapel for pre-K through 5th grade. 6-7th grade religious exploration will meet at 11 sharp. OWL for 7 and Senior Youth meet at 4pm
  • Sparks and Flames meet together at Hilltop Fun Center! Friday, March 2, at 7pm

[“Normal RE program day”: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

  • Family resources for February’s theme: A people of Perseverance- see below!

(If you haven’t already, please REGISTER for the 2017-18 church year!)

Here are some more details on the items mentioned above:

Senior Youth Immigration Justice Trip- informational potluck- Sunday, Jan 7 at 5:30pm. Immediately following our regular youth group gathering, Parents and youth are invited to a potluck to dig into specifics around the Immigration Justice trip we are planning in June. Come if you’re sure you want to participate, come if you are not at all sure, but still considering. We’ll go over logistics, fundraising commitments, concerns, and finances. Bring a dish to share! See you there!

Families Tuugether, Saturday, January 13th, 4:30-8pm  Open to children 8 months through Sixth grade, Families Tuugether is a popular program for families of young kids; an opportunity for parents to reconnect and to recharge. Offered monthly during the church year, children are dropped off at South Church at 4:30pm with a potluck dish to share (Ready to serve, please.), and parents head up to the sanctuary for a short group gathering before heading out to enjoy some quite time. Children will strengthen friendships, enjoy a movie, and play fun games. Parents return to get their child no later than 8pmPlease note: Families MUST RSVP (kirsten@southchurch-uu.org)  if they plan to come to this event, so that we are able to meet the staffing needs. Program is be closed after 25 children register, to ensure we have a safe and fun event.

Sparks and Purple flames (social groups for 5-6th and 7-8th grades) On March 2nd we will be meeting together at Hilltop Fun Center from 7-9pm for Laser tag and some arcade time. Bring a water bottle, wear sneakers. If you are not registered for this program, email me for details on that! If you are registered, please RSVP so I know you’re coming!

Family resources for February: ‘We are a community of perseverance’ . One of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. This means there are also lots of opportunities for ideas and inspirations we come across on Sundays at South Church to find their way into our lives throughout the week. This could be very meaningful for your family and for our community.  As we explore themes throughout the year think about ways you might take those conversations home to your dinner tables, night time rituals, car drives, and morning routines.  Here’s a small framework to whet your palate, let me know if you have any great family moments!

[From Soul Matters RE Packet:] These resources support parents as they try to live out and engage our themes with their children. We can ask “What does it mean to be a parent of Perseverance” or “What does it mean to be a family of Perseverance?” As you use these resources to engage these questions, keep in mind some additional ways to use them with other parents or your church community:  

  • Reflect with those in your family.
  • Share and discuss them with other parents or another family.
  • Use them in a Parent Circle that meets on Sunday afternoon or mid-week.

Resources:

App: Breathe, Think, Do with Sesame Street: A smartphone app using Sesame Street characters to help young children keep calm and carry on – persevere in the face of difficulties.

Webinar: How to Encourage Your Child to Take on Challenges and Develop a “Growth Mindset” Research shows that young children who are willing to take on challenges are more successful in school and life. But how can you encourage your child to develop this important skill?

Articles:

Best Apps for ChildrenApps can turn your smartphone or tablet into a learning tool, an entertainment system, or a way to dig up almost anything you want to know. This guide makes finding the best apps for the task (and your kids’ needs) easy. Detailed reviews and suggestions. Children already persevere while playing online, so find some good ones.

How to Teach Kids Perseverance and Goal-Setting –To encourage perseverance, teach preteens how to set goals and work to meet them.

12 Tips To Raise a Persistent Child –Suggestions to support parents with effective ways to encourage their child in going after what they want.
Movies:

Homeward Bound, rated G-  Three pets escape from a California ranch to find their owners in San Francisco.

Finding Nemo, rated G –After his son is captured in the Great Barrier Reef and taken to Sydney, a timid clownfish sets out on a journey to bring him home.

Wall-E, rated G- In the distant future, a small waste-collecting robot inadvertently embarks on a space journey that will ultimately decide the fate of mankind.

Eagle Huntress, rated G (recommended for 8+ yrs. old) Thirteen-year-old Aisholpan trains to become the first female in twelve generations of her Kazakh family to become an eagle huntress.

One Night With the King (PG) The story of Purim, celebrated at the end of February, and Queen Esther.

Our monthly church-wide themes this year:
A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

January nUUs from Religious Education

I expect many of you will be reading this from your homes on Thursday, while snow falls outside. I hope you are all warm and safe! If you’re looking for ideas to fill the time, don’t forget the family resources at the end of this newsletter (they’re in every month’s post!)

Big hugs and gratitude to everyone who helped make the First Night Chili sale a success!! It was a bitter cold night, but the youth made over $1,000, thanks to everyone who made chili to donate, helped serve, and came to eat!! Muchas Gracias!!!!! We are on our way to meeting the fundraising goal for our immigration justice trip in June!

In this post:

  • Sparks and Flames meet together at South Church! Friday, January 5th, at 7pm
  • Senior Youth Immigration Justice Trip- informational potluck- Sunday, Jan 7 at 5:30pm
  • Families Tuugether! Saturday, January 13th 4:30-8pm
  • MLK weekend info
  • Program Volunteering:
    • Sign up for January Volunteer Spots <click for info
    • February Workshop Seminar- Wed, January 10th, 8pm in your living room! for parents and interested volunteers Click Here to Sign up. This is a great opportunity to engage from the comfort of your home- video or call in- includes RE overview, theme reflection & brainstorm, and a basic volunteer training.
  • Sundays this month:
    • January 7Children’s Chapel for pre-K through 5th grade. 6-7th grade religious exploration will meet. OWL for 5th at 9:30. OWL for 7 and Senior Youth meet at 4pm
    • January 14th:  Holiday RE program day. (see below)
    • January 21st: *Normal RE program day.
    • January 28th: *Normal RE program day

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 5th grade is currently meeting at 9:30 most Sundays. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

  • Family resources for January’s theme: A people of Intention- see below!

(If you haven’t already, please REGISTER for the 2017-18 church year!)

Here are some more details on the items mentioned above:

Sparks and Purple flames (social groups for 5-6th and 7-8th grades) this Friday we will be meeting together here at South Church from 7-9pm. Bring a flashlight (we’re playing a great game in the dark!), wear sneakers and bring a favorite snack to share. If you are not registered for this program, email me for details on that! If you are registered, please RSVP so I know you’re coming!

Senior Youth Immigration Justice Trip- informational potluck- Sunday, Jan 7 at 5:30pm. Immediately following our regular youth group gathering, Parents and youth are invited to a potluck to dig into specifics around the Immigration Justice trip we are planning in June. Come if you’re sure you want to participate, come if you are not at all sure, but still considering. We’ll go over logistics, fundraising commitments, concerns, and finances. Bring a dish to share! See you there!

Families Tuugether, Saturday, January 13th, 4:30-8pm  Open to children 8 months through Sixth grade, Families Tuugether is a popular program for families of young kids; an opportunity for parents to reconnect and to recharge. Offered monthly during the church year, children are dropped off at South Church at 4:30pm with a potluck dish to share (Ready to serve, please.), and parents head up to the sanctuary for a short group gathering before heading out to enjoy some quite time. Children will strengthen friendships, enjoy a movie, and play fun games. Parents return to get their child no later than 8pmPlease note: Families MUST RSVP (kirsten@southchurch-uu.org)  if they plan to come to this event, so that we are able to meet the staffing needs. Program is be closed after 25 children register, to ensure we have a safe and fun event.

Martin Luther King Jr weekend- in addition to some conversations in RE over the next two weeks related to MLK, I wanted to let you know that there is a special pancake breakfast and worship service for MLK at South Church on Monday morning (breakfast at 8:30, music/service at 10 followed by walk on Portsmouth’s Black Heritage Trail. Concluding at noon). It is sponsored by the Seacoast NAACP, and would be a meaningful way to engage in the work of this justice leader with older children. There are opportunities to volunteer during the breakfast as well, so reach out if you’d like to get involved.

Theme workshops for January:

Family resources for January: ‘We are a community of intention’ . One of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. This means there are also lots of opportunities for ideas and inspirations we come across on Sundays at South Church to find their way into our lives throughout the week. This could be very meaningful for your family and for our community.  As we explore themes throughout the year think about ways you might take those conversations home to your dinner tables, night time rituals, car drives, and morning routines.  Here’s a small framework to whet your palate, let me know if you have any great family moments!

[From Soul Matters RE Packet:] Playing off our monthly theme question of “What does it mean to be a people of intention?”, we invite parents to ask “What does it mean to be a parent of intention” or “What does it mean to be a family of intention?”

A Book Suggestion:

The Power of Intention: Learning to Co-create Your World Your Way, By Wayne Dyer

Ideas for Reflection:

How to Create a Sankalpa, by Kelly McGonigal, Yoga International.  The yoga tradition offers a profound formula for realizing your heartfelt desires—without asking you to change who you are. It’s the practice of sankalpa (resolve), as suggested by Rev. Rebecca “Beckett” Coppola, Minister, Kingston Unitarian Fellowship, Kingston, Ontario, Canada

Right Intention (Samma Sankappa) From The Noble Eightfold Path: The Way to the End of Suffering by Bhikkhu Bodhi. A reading from the Vipassana tradition in Buddhism for those interested in more depth, as suggested by Rev. Rebecca “Beckett” Coppola, Minister, Kingston Unitarian Fellowship, Kingston, Ontario, Canada

26 Things to Say to Nurture Your Child’s Inner Voice

Ideas for Meditation

Two-Minute Meditation for Crazy-Busy People – Waylon Lewis of Elephant Journal.

 Video about Three Kings Day:

Dora Celebrates Three Kings Day (30 min)

A Family Game

Game of Choices  Help young children learn about choices and intentions.

Movie Ideas

Field of Dreams (PG) A farmer is called to change his life and follow a dream—an inner voice—that guides him to turn his cornfield into a baseball field where extraordinary and magical things happen.

Ratatouille (G) (We’ll be watching this at Families Tuugether on the 13th!) Remy, a resident of Paris, appreciates good food, and has quite a sophisticated palate. He would love to become a chef so he can create and enjoy culinary masterpieces to his heart’s delight. Despite the fact that he is, well … a rat, he never lets that stand in the way of his pie-in-the-sky dream.

October Sky (PG) The future of the young Homer Hickam seems predetermined. Just like his father he is supposed to work in the mine – a fate that he shares with almost all men that live in his town. That is until Homer watches the rocket launch of the Sputnik satellite and is inspired by this to build rockets for the science fair.

Our monthly church-wide themes this year:
A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

December nUUs from Religious Education

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Hello! Happy cookie season everyone!! I hope you are finding plenty of time for snuggly cuddles and sweet smells wafting through your homes.

In this post:

  • South Church Holiday Potluck! Friday, December 8th at 6pm
  • Parent’s Day Out! (a morning version of Families Tuugether!)
  • Program Volunteering:
    • Sign up for DECEMBER Volunteer spots <click for info! 
    • January Workshop seminar for parents and interested volunteers Click Here to Sign up. This is a great opportunity to engage from the comfort of your home- video or call in- you can even wear your pj’s! December 12th at 8pm
  • Sundays this month:
    • December 3rdChildren’s Chapel for 1st-5th grade. Spirit Play and 6-7th grade classes will meet. OWL for 5th at 9:30. OWL for 7 and Senior Youth meet at 4pm
    • December 10th:  Normal* RE program day. (see below)
    • December 17th: Holiday Pageant during both worship services.
    • December 24th: Evening candlelight worship at 5, 7, or 9pm. No Religious Education or morning worship.
    • December 31st: Holiday programming in RE. We’ll be making Chili and Cornbread for the First Night Chili sale. All children and youth are welcome!

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 5th grade is currently meeting at 9:30 most Sundays. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

  • Family resources for December’s theme: A people of Hope- see below!

(If you haven’t already, please REGISTER for the 2017-18 church year!)

Here are some more details on the items mentioned above:

South Church Holiday Potluck! Friday, December 8th at 6pm. This is an annual gathering for all South Church folks! Bring a potluck dish to share, take a holiday portrait, sing some carols, chat and be merry! We’ll have some fun kids activities set up for those who come with young ones. Hope to see you there!

Parent’s Day Out! Saturday, December 16th, 10am-2pm  Open to children 8 months through Sixth grade, Families Tuugether is a popular program for families of young kids; an opportunity for parents to reconnect and to recharge. This month, we’re offering a daytime version due to a busy church event schedule in the evenings! Parents can go finish up shopping, take a nap, wander the town holding hands— the world is your oyster! Children are dropped off at South Church at 10am with a potluck lunch dish to share (Ready to serve, please.), and parents head up to the sanctuary for a short group gathering before heading out to enjoy some quite time. Children will strengthen friendships, enjoy some holiday shows, make salt ornaments/cookies, and play fun games. Parents return to get their child no later than 2pmPlease note: Families MUST RSVP(kirsten@southchurch-uu.org)  if they plan to come to this event, so that we are able to meet the staffing needs. Program is be closed after 20 children register, to ensure we have a safe and fun event.

Senior Youth Families: Youth volunteer opportunities

  • Coffee sale- December 10th, 9:15-10:45 or 11-12:30
  • Parent’s Day Out- December 16th 10-2pm
  • First Night Chili Sale- make chili (=1hr volunteer time) and volunteer at sale evening of 12/31!

Family resources for December: ‘We are a community of hope’ . One of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. This means there are also lots of opportunities for ideas and inspirations we come across on Sundays at South Church to find their way into our lives throughout the week. This could be very meaningful for your family and for our community.  As we explore themes throughout the year think about ways you might take those conversations home to your dinner tables, night time rituals, car drives, and morning routines.  Here’s a small framework to whet your palate, let me know if you have any great family moments!

[From Soul Matters RE Packet:] Playing off our monthly theme question of “What does it mean to be a people of hope?”, we invite parents to ask “What does it mean to be a parent of hope” or “What does it mean to be a family of hope?”

A Common Read

What to Do about Christmas? A Unitarian Universalist family rejects, then embraces, holiday season rituals and traditions. By Michelle Richards, UU World Parenting Blog, 12/14/2015

A Book and Workshop

Unplug the Christmas Machine: A Complete Guide to Putting Love and Joy Back into the Season by Jo Robinson and Jean C. Staeheli.  A guide to reducing the commercialism of the upcoming winter holidays.

A Family Ritual

When you are lucky enough to see a rainbow, the symbol of hope,  take hands and say or sing these words from “De Colores,” Hymn #305 in Singing the Living Tradition:

All the colors, as a rainbow appears when a storm cloud is touched by the sun.
Y por eso los grandes amores de muchos colores me gustan a mi.
All the colors abound for the whole world around and for everyone under the sun.

Movies

Moana, Rated PG . In Ancient Polynesia, when a terrible curse incurred by Demigod Maui reaches Moana’s island, she answers the Ocean’s call to set things right. Suggested for “Hope” by Lynnie Lee, Topeka, KS

Mickey’s Christmas Carol (28 min.)  Retelling of Dickens’s Scrooge story with Disney characters.

NEW Movie – The Man Who Invented Christmas, PG, to be released 11/22/17  A British Unitarian ‘Charles Dickens’ writing of “A Christmas Carol”

The Rosa Parks Story   Noting  her arrest on Dec. 1, 1955

 

Our monthly church-wide themes this year:
A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

November 2017 nUUs in Religious Education

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Reverend Lauren as the workshop leader on Oct. 22nd!

Hello! What a full and wonderful October we have shared together! Big thanks to everyone who joined us for the Halloween social and help to support our High School youth group, they raised about $300 for their end of year service learning trip!

In this post:

  • Families Tuugether this Saturday from 4:30-8pm (rsvp required- read more below)
  • Senior Youth upcoming events (H.S. parents: please read below)
  • Volunteers Needed! please:
  • Sundays this month:
    • November 12th: Normal* RE program day. (see below)
    • November 19th:  Normal* RE program day. (see below)
    • November 26: Wholly family service with Special RE guest program! (no Coming of Age, Owl, or Senior youth)
    • December 3: Children’s Chapel and theme talk

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 5th grade is currently meeting at 9:30 most Sundays. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

  • Family resources for November’s theme: A people of Abundance- see below!

(If you haven’t already, please REGISTER for the 2017-18 church year!)

Here are some more details on the items mentioned above:

Families Tuugether, Saturday, November 11th, 4:30-8pm  Open to children 8 months through Sixth grade, Families Tuugether is a popular program for families of young kids; an opportunity for parents to reconnect and to recharge. Offered monthly during the church year, children are dropped off at South Church at 4:30pm with a potluck dish to share (Ready to serve, please.), and parents head up to the sanctuary for a short group gathering before heading out to enjoy some quite time. Children will strengthen friendships, enjoy a movie, and play fun games. Parents return to get their child no later than 8pmPlease note: Families MUST RSVP(kirsten@southchurch-uu.org)  if they plan to come to this event, so that we are able to meet the staffing needs. Program is be closed after 25 children register, to ensure we have a safe and fun event.

Senior Youth Families: 

  • November 114 youth are needed to help supervise younger church kids from 4:15 – 8:30, this will count toward fundraising hours
  • November 12: Youth will be meeting at the Urban Forestry Center in Portsmouth (35 Elwyn Rd) from 2pm to 4:30 
  • November 17-18 Youth Overnight service trip- RSVP due by Nov. 12!

Family resources for November: ‘We are a community of abundance’ . One of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. This means there are also lots of opportunities for ideas and inspirations we come across on Sundays at South Church to find their way into our lives throughout the week. This could be very meaningful for your family and for our community.  As we explore themes throughout the year think about ways you might take those conversations home to your dinner tables, night time rituals, car drives, and morning routines.  Here’s a small framework to whet your palate, let me know if you have any great family moments!

[From Soul Matters RE Packet:] Playing off our monthly theme question of “What does it mean to be a people of abundance?”, we invite parents to ask “What does it mean to be a parent of abundance” or “What does it mean to be a family of abundance?”

Families Share: From Tapestry of Faith~ Signs of Our Faith:   http://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/signs/session7/287776.shtml   (Family activities based on building a sharing ethic.)

Families Explore Rituals at Meal times: From Tapestry of Faith; Creating Home; Bless this Meal:  http://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/home/session11/58708.shtml

 Theme Related articles: 

And, Check out this Pinterest page on Abundance- Images and links to the books, videos, activities and more: https://www.pinterest.com/soulmattersre/2017-abundance/

Our monthly church-wide themes this year:
A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

October 2017 nUUs in Religious Education

20171005_111751 (1)Autumn greetings to all!

I heard the first crunch of leaves under my feet on the sidewalk today, and my tomato plants have nearly wilted away, with a few desperate green fruits hoping that the frost gives them time to turn red… we shall see.

We have already started up many of the RE program engines, with volunteer teams, orientations, and launches throughout September and early October. Parents, if you are not yet clear on your role in our cooperative program, please make it a priority to step on to a crew this month. Chasing down volunteers each week is not the best way to serve our kids, or to have meaningful experiences as adult program volunteers! I’ve got the perfect spot for you, if you need some help finding your spot, look at the list of needs below and jump on board!

In this post:

  • In case you missed it- click here to REGISTER for the 2017-18 church year!
  • Sundays this month:
    • October 8: Holiday weekend RE- multi-age program at 9 and 11 (scroll down for more info) Age-level programs resume next week
    • October 15th:  Normal* RE program day.
    • October 22nd: *RE program day.
    • October 29: Dia de los Muertos Worship and *RE program day

[*Normal RE program day: Spirit Play, Theme workshops, 6-7th grade religious exploration, Coming of Age for 8th grade, OWL 5, OWL 7, and Senior Youth all meet! WOW!]

  • Other upcoming dates: more info on each at the end of this post!
    • October 6 5th-6th grade Sparks, and 7th-8th grade Purple Flames (second gathering will be November 3rd)
    • October 14th- Reconsecration event! All church celebration & blessing of the Sanctuary. Saturday evening. Nursery and children’s programming will be offered.
    • October 27-28th Coming of age fall retreat (8th grade)
    • November 5th Theme Talk: Abundance. Between services (10:15-10:50)
  • Family resources for October’s theme: A people of Courage

More Details on the list above: 

Sparks and Purple flames (social groups for 5-6th and 7-8th grades) Friday, October 7th will be our first Getting to Know each other gathering from 7-9pm in the Social hall at South Church.  This month (OCT 6) we meet together at the parish hall for getting-to-know-you games. Bring a favorite snack to share. Please RSVP so I know you’re coming!

Reconsecration event: After four months of worshipping in the basement, four months of extensive clean up from smoke damage, we are ready to return to our sanctuary and her fresh new look. Come and celebrate and reconsecrate this sanctuary which has stood for love and justice on the seacoast for three hundred years. Come and celebrate with us as we set course for our next hundred years. Saturday, October 14 at 7 pm at South Church. Nursery will be open and child care with activities will be offered!

Click here for info on Programs happening this year in RE (For parents and volunteers): 

Family resources for October: ‘We are a community of courage’

One of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. This means there are also lots of opportunities for ideas and inspirations we come across on Sundays at South Church to find their way into our lives throughout the week.

This could be very meaningful for your family and for our community.

As we explore themes throughout the year think about ways you might take those conversations home to your dinner tables, night time rituals, car drives, and morning routines.  Here’s a small framework to whet your palate, let me know if you have any great family moments!

[From Soul Matters RE Packet:] Playing off our monthly theme question of “What does it mean to be a people of Coururage?”, we invite parents to ask “What does it mean to be a parent of Courage” or “What does it mean to be a family of Courage?”

As you use these resources to engage these questions, keep in mind some additional ways to use them with other parents or your church community:  

  • Read it and reflect with those in your family.
  • Share and discuss them with other parents or another family.
  • Use them in a Parent Circle that meets on Sunday afternoon or mid-week.
  • Use them at a Wonderful Wednesday night that includes dinner, spiritual practice and activities on the theme, including times together as families, and separate as kids and adults. Be sure to gather at the end for a goodnight hug and lullaby!

Building Courage in Kids – How to Teach Kids to Be Brave

http://www.heysigmund.com/building-courage-in-kids/

Fears and Children – strategies

http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=114&np=141&id=1612

And How are the Children?

http://www.uua.org/worship/words/reading/and-how-are-the-children

Four Powerful  Ways To Raise Courageous  Children in 2017 https://www.courageworks.com/2017/01/four-powerful-ways-raise-courageous-children

UU Views of Prayer

http://www.uua.org/beliefs/what-we-do/spirituality/prayer

David and Goliath

A Multigenerational Workshop from Tapestry of Faith

Wisdom from the Hebrew Scriptures, David and Goliath

http://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/multigenerational/hebrewscriptures/workshop1

Celebrating Animals in our Lives

St. Francis’ Day blog by Michelle Richards

http://www.uuworld.org/articles/celebrating-animals-our-lives

http://www.uuworld.org/articles/costume-choices

Courage and Keepin’ On Video

The Good Dinosaur  A dinosaur with a good heart who learns the meaning of courage on his way home.

http://www.spiritualityandpractice.com/films/reviews/view/28068/the-good-dinosaur

Courage to be yourself – Transgender documentary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5yNIhlkmycU

Our monthly church-wide themes this year:
A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

September’17 nUUs in Religious Education

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Greetings on the last day of August!!

I hope you have all had a wonderful summer, and that returns to school have gone smoothly, but, if it’s bumpy and awkward and you are feeling tired and overwhelmed, know that you are not alone! (Not by a long shot!)

I have a lot of news for you in this post, and there are details still to be ironed out as we continue getting families registered, filling volunteer roles and finalizing the calendar. Cat Lyons and I are really excited for how this year is looking, as we settle into some of the changes that were implemented last fall with a bit more certainty. Can’t wait to get you all involved and see your kids!

In this post:

  • It’s time to REGISTER for the 2017-18 church year!
  • Sundays this month:
    • September 3: Holiday weekend RE- one service at 10am (scroll down for more info)
    • September 10:  Water In-Gathering worship- Two services (9 & 11)
    • September 17: Return to the Sanctuary! RE Welcome workshops (Two services at 9 and 11 until memorial day…)
    • September 24: R.E Welcome workshops and Bring your weight in Food Drive!
  • OWL for 5th grade, 7th grade, and 10-11th grade
  • Coming of Age for 8th grade
  • Senior Youth Overnight and start of year (9-12th grade)
  • Other upcoming dates: more info on each at the end of this post!
    • September 22nd- @ 6pm in Sanctuary- Coming of Age program orientation (8th grade youth and parents)
    • September 23rd- Senior Youth orientation and overnight (parents too, at 6pm!)
    • October 1st between services (10:15-10:50) Theme talk: “Courage”
    • October 6- first Sparks and Purple flames (social groups for 5-6th and 7-8th grades)
    • October 14th- All church celebration & blessing of the Sanctuary
  • Family resources for September’s theme: A people of Welcome
  • Descriptions of Volunteer opportunities if you’re not sure how you’d like to get involved! 

More Details on the list above:

R.E on September 3 and 10:  We are excited to re-start our year in Religious Education and we’ve decided to kick it off with a story!  This coming Sunday we will be making some props and learning about the story of Stone Soup – a tale about sharing and working together to help everyone.  The following Sunday will be our Water Ingathering service at 9 and 11.  We need some kids to help us tell our story at each service.  I’ve attached the script so that people can get familiar with the story at home if you aren’t at church this week (holiday weekend).  We hope to see you this week for prop-making and at our Water Ingathering to help tell this fun story.  Script:  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IqyXh-hEgrGvKdOZ7Yihbx5EmGdPp-YzTpmqyDbttRU/edit?usp=sharing

Water In-Gathering- worship for all ages (at 9am or 11am on September 10th) This annual service includes an opportunity for each of us to bring and share a small amount of water from somewhere meaningful, whether it’s your kitchen sink, or the lake you spend your summers. Join us for this beautiful start to a new year!

OWL- Our Whole Lives- is a comprehensive sexuality education program that we offer multiple times throughout our children’s adolescence at South Church. OWL is a nationally acclaimed program and it is an invaluable experience for our children/youth. You can read more about it here: uua.org/re/owl   The 10-11th grade class will be offered in the winter months, but 5th grade and 7th grade OWL orientations are now set:

  • 5th grade OWL parent orientation (not kids)– October 1st at 12:30-2pm
  • 7th grade OWL parent orientation (not kids)– October 1st at 4:00-6:00 pm

Coming of Age program orientation (8th grade youth and parents) Friday, September 22nd @ 6pm in Sanctuary- – This is an important gathering if your 8th grader is planning to participate in this incredible year long program. We’ll be sending out letters to each of the families next week, but feel free to email if you have questions!

Senior Youth orientation and overnight (parents too, at 6pm!) Saturday 9/23 We will begin the evening with an orientation for families which will include an overview of the year, a bit of paperwork, and an opportunity for Q & A. The orientation should take about an hour and the youth will remain for an overnight. Please email for more information if you have any questions! a few details:

  • We will have a Saturday evening of getting to know our new group and then those who wish will sleep at the church and we will lead the Bring Your Weight in Food Drive on Sunday morning at church.  It is our first big gathering and social justice event and a good time for everyone.

  • Sunday 10/1 4-5:30pm is the first regular youth group meeting of the year.  We will meet on the top floor of Karnan house and start getting into our regular rhythm and planning out the year ahead!

Bring-Your-Weight-in-Food Drive benefiting Gather; the Seacoast Food Pantry. Our community’s generosity at this strategic time of year makes a big difference in the community. Early donations may be dropped off at the church during office hours the week prior to Food Drive Sunday. (Tues-Friday, 9-2)

Sparks and Purple flames (social groups for 5-6th and 7-8th grades) Friday, October 7th will be our first Getting to Know each other gathering from 7-9pm in the Social hall at South Church.  I will be reaching out to families in the next week with more details. You can register for this program on the 7th, but please RSVP so I know you’re coming!

Programs happening this year in RE (For parents and volunteers): 

Spirit Play: Our Pre-Kinder (4 year olds) and Kindergarten classroom usesSpirit Play, a montessori approach to religious education that invites children to explore life’s big questions through stories, “wonderings,” “work” (activities) and songs. Later in the fall and throughout the year 3 year olds are welcome to move up into the classroom as well.

Theme based Workshops: Students in 1st-7th grade* will be engaged in a workshop styled program beginning this fall. The monthly workshops will be created by congregants in connection with the month’s worship theme, so specific offerings will change throughout the year, and will connect to the theme schedule which is listed below. Often, the groups will be open to a range of ages, but may be split in age groups for particular offerings.

*We will also be running month long faith explorations for upper elementary (particular 6th grade) students (parents are welcome too). Keep your eye out for details on this program in our October nUUs-  it will include visiting other nearby faith communities and learning some basics about each tradition we explore. If you are interested in helping facilitate for a specific month, or throughout the year, please reach out!

OWL- Our Whole Lives- Comprehensive Sexuality Education– This year we are offering programs for 5th grade (an 8 week program) and 7th grade (a year long program). OWL is a nationally acclaimed program and it is an invaluable experience for our children/youth. You can read more about it here: uua.org/re/owl  OWL instructors are needed! We will pay for your training! Please reach out if you are interested.

Coming of Age– This is a rite of passage year for our 8th grade students. They will be spending this year (at 11 am most Sundays) exploring big questions, getting to know a mentor and one another, and creating a personal credo. The COA program is a really special year for our kids and for every adult who gets to be involved. We are looking for a few more facilitators to help make the program run throughout the year, and also need mentors to match with each of the participating youth. Please reach out if you’re interested!

Senior Youth Group- Our high school youth group strives to be a place of community service and empowerment. We build community through deep sharing, witness, playing games, and sharing time in reflection. Each year includes a number of service learning opportunities. The program gives our youth an opportunity to build deep friendships, develop a better understanding of themselves, and of the world in which we live.

Our monthly church-wide themes this year:
A community of…

September: Welcome
October: Courage
November: Abundance
December: Hope
January: Intention
February: Perseverence
March: Balance
April: Emergence
May: Creativity

Family resources for September: ‘We are a community of welcome’– one of the wonderful things about theme based church is that there are multiple opportunities for parents and children to explore a specific idea throughout each month. This means there are also lots of opportunities for ideas and inspirations we come across on Sundays at South Church to find their way into our lives throughout the week.

This could be very meaningful for your family and for our community.

This month, as we explore the idea of welcome, think about ways you might take those conversations home to your dinner tables, night time rituals, car drives, and morning routines.  Here’s a small framework to whet your palate, let me know if you have any great family moments!

[From Soul Matters RE Packet:] Playing off our monthly theme question of “What does it mean to be a people of Welcome?”, we invite parents to ask “What does it mean to be a parent of Welcome” or “What does it mean to be a family of Welcome?”

As you use these resources to engage these questions, keep in mind some additional ways to use them with other parents or your church community:  

  • Read it and reflect with those in your family.
  • Share and discuss them with other parents or another family.
  • Use them in a Parent Circle that meets on Sunday afternoon or mid-week.
  • Use them at a Wonderful Wednesday night that includes dinner, spiritual practice and activities on the theme, including times together as families, and separate as kids and adults. Be sure to gather at the end for a goodnight hug and lullaby!

Your Five-Year-Old is already Racially Biased and What You Can Do About It

https://medium.com/embrace-race/your-5-year-old-is-already-racially-biased-heres-what-you-can-do-about-it-d72de0480ba3

Helping our children be more welcoming and intercultural competent.

7 Tips for White Parents to Talk to Their Kids About Police Murders of Black People

https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/magazine/7-tips-for-white-parents-to-talk-to-their-kids-about-police-murders-of-black-people/

Welcoming and talking about hard truths.

Family Activities on Welcome

from Tapestry of Faith, Signs of Our Faith

http://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/signs/session10/287890.shtml

Raising Children to Be Interfaith Ambassadors

by Michelle Richards

http://www.uuworld.org/articles/raising-interfaith-ambassadors

A Candid Welcome; Top 10 Reasons You May Not Feel Comfortable and Welcome in a UU Congregation

http://www.uuworld.org/articles/candid-welcome-uu

A list of welcoming and unwelcoming beliefs from a UU perspective. Helps parents engage their children in the question, Is UUism about believing anything you want?

“How Tonglen helps Children Handle Pain”

http://howdoidate.com/relationships/parenting-skills/how-tonglen-helps-children-to-handle-pain/

Helping children welcome the hard times

The Spiritual Child: The New Science on Parenting for Health and Lifelong Thriving

by Dr. Lisa Miller

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1250033837/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1250033837&linkCode=as2&tag=inccom05-20&linkId=d1d0eb85deeae52389b3a3f1bb0f43dc

Welcoming spirituality to childhood!