Nurturing spiritual growth through worship, learning, and community; Celebrating the worth and dignity of all people; and Acting on our faith in the larger community.
We all have lots of superpowers, and all of them are important in building a thriving community
As we begin this year’s stewardship campaign, we’re thinking about all the ways we contribute to our church community—not just financially! What are your family’s superpowers, and how might you share them with our church community?
Every person brings something different to the life of South Church. Sometimes it’s a willingness to help, a creative idea, a listening ear, a joyful presence, or simply showing up and being part of things. Our community grows stronger when we make room for all the ways we can contribute, big and small.
October in RE: Courage, Connection, and Creativity
This month, we’re continuing to build micro communities in age groups through play, creation, conversation, stories, and shared experiences. We’re making spaces for children and youth to explore who they are, what matters to them, and how they want to show up in our congregation and the world.
A Story That Becomes Something Tangible
One of our wonderful RE volunteers, Emily, had a lovely idea for our upper elementary kids, and the project got underway this month! Inspired by The Story Rug by Sophie Blackall, the children began creating a shared project of their own.
After reading the book, they started ripping strips of fabric to braid together. When I popped into their room, I could hear the wonderfully satisfying rrrip, rrrip sounds before I even opened the door!
The project will stay in their room as they continue their conversations in the weeks ahead. Kids can braid intentions into the fabric, and perhaps, over time, it will grow into a rug of its own.
Families are invited to contribute fabric, especially pieces that hold a story for you! It might be a scrap from a favorite old shirt, a special blanket, or something else that carries a memory. We’d love to weave some of your family’s stories into this shared project. Please be conservative and discerning in your contributions so the group is not overwhelmed by volume 🙂
The Story Rug is a lovely, heartwarming book for all ages. You can watch Sophie Blackall read it aloud here.
Please Register for Religious Education
If you haven’t yet registered your children for this program year, please take a few minutes to do so. We ask caregivers to complete registration each year so that we can serve families safely, plan appropriate class sizes, and shape our programs around the children who will actually be participating.
For Parents:Talk Heart 2 Heart, website with lots of resources for having hard conversations and building resilience
Remember, living our faith doesn’t require grand gestures. Sometimes it looks like asking a brave question, welcoming someone who feels left out, listening with an open heart, or choosing to make things a little better for someone else.
Get ready to VOTE! Teaching kids the value of voting helps them know how to consider their values in deciding action and gives them faith in using our voices to co-create community. Adults can get their ballot early to have time at home to show kids what a ballot looks like and you can research the candidates or topics together to show what thoughtful deliberation looks like. Or if you will vote in person, you can go as a family and make the day special!
October Shared Plate Organization: Seacoast Family Promise. Seacoast Family Promise provides temporary housing, food, and shelter, to families through a structured journey utilizing trauma informed care, employment education and housing search, financial education, parenting and other effective tools leading families back to stability and the return to a place they can call home. South Church participates in supplying meals to the SFP families at certain weeks of the year. To find out how your family can help, reach out to southchurchsfpcoordinator@gmail.com
Hey look, it’s September! We’re looking forward to beginning a new year together—making friends, building community, asking questions, trying new things, and embodying what it means to be Unitarian Universalist.
Our summer programming has centered on play, creativity, and making friends. We’ll continue to make room for all of those things during the program year, while also participating in some deeper explorations through stories, curriculum, rituals, conversation, art, and other activities.
Sunday September 13: Water Ingathering!
This Sunday is an all-ages, multigenerational worship service. It is the official “first day of church” and the kickoff of a new year. Kids of all ages will stay in worship for the entire service, and the nursery will be closed.
Bring a small amount of water from home or from a place you’ve traveled to add to our community bowl, which contains water from thousands of folks over many years. We use this water in blessings, rituals, and other special moments throughout the year. Each little contribution represents the individuals who make the whole of who We are together. And if you forget to bring water, no worries–there will be a way for you to contribute.
The Religious Education Program Year Begins This Month!
PreK through 7th Grade:
Sunday, September 20 is the official first day of our RE program year for PreK–7th grade.
After the Time For All Ages, children will head downstairs for their RE classes.
We’ll begin together with some covenanting and a chance to think about what we want our year to be like. What kind of community do we want to create? How do we want to treat one another? What do we want to learn and experience together? Kids will be invited to co-create the vision of their shared learning and development.
Coming of Age (8th Grade):
September 24th–CoA Family Orientation, 6pm.
Families with 8th graders who are considering Coming of Age are invited to an orientation on September 24. CoA is a special UU rite-of-passage program that marks the transition from childhood to adolescence. It invites young people to explore and express their values, identities, and beliefs with intention, support, and love.
The evening will include information about the program, a family workshop, and an Opening Ceremony for families who choose to participate.
High School Youth Group (Senior Youth) Grades 9-12:
The first Senior Youth Group Meeting is Sunday, September 27th!
We’ll welcome new and returning youth with snacks, activities, and play, all designed by our returning upperclassmen.
We’ll also have an Orientation and Overnight Friday-Saturday, Oct 2-3. Parents attend 7:00-8:00p Friday, to hear about expectations, logistics, ask questions, and complete permission forms. Youth stay 7p Fri until 10a Sat for Orientation and some early bonding and integration activities.
Family RE Open House — September 27
Curious about what happens downstairs? Want to learn more about our programs for children and families?
Join us on Sunday, September 27 for a Family RE Open House! Come see the classrooms, meet the people who make our programs happen, ask questions, and learn more about what we have planned for the year. And, of course, there will be pizza!
Please RSVP if you can, so we have a sense of how much food to order: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org, or text: 603-988-9411
A Note About the Prayground
The Prayground space for kids in the sanctuary continues to be a wonderful resource for children and caregivers. It gives kids a place to choose an activity while listening to worship, and parents have an opportunity to sit together, get to know one another, or take some quiet time elsewhere in the sanctuary.
A couple of ways we can all help make the Prayground work well:
Please help tidy the space after children head downstairs or before you leave the sanctuary.
And please help children play quietly while they are there. There is no expectation that children will be silent! The goal is to help kids learn how to participate in worship in ways that honor their own needs while also being mindful of the worship experience of others.
We’re all learning how to do this together and we’re grateful for everyone’s patience, flexibility, and care.
South Church Fall Retreat Registration Is Open!
Registration is now open for the Fall Retreat at Lake Winnipesaukee, and we hope you’ll consider going!
This is a wonderful opportunity for families and folks of all ages to spend time together in a relaxed setting. There are lots of optional, casual activities, as well as plenty of opportunities to connect, explore, rest, read, roam, or simply do nothing at all. You can make the weekend as full or as quiet as you like. Games, worship, pumpkin carving, nature walks, puzzles, food, and more. Financial assistance is available.
We ask caregivers to complete registration each year so that we can serve families safely, plan appropriate class sizes, and shape our programs and curriculum around the children who will actually be participating.
We’re excited and freshly inspired to begin another year of learning, growing, playing, wondering, and building community together. We can’t wait to see you this Sunday and throughout the year! Please always reach out to JenDB or Kirsten for conversations about how to engage more deeply and to help create the community you are craving.
Chalice Lighting For Meal Times: “For A New Beginning” (excerpt) by John O’Donohue
In out-of-the way places of the heart, Where your thoughts never think to wander, This beginning has been quietly forming, Waiting until you were ready to emerge.
For a long time it has watched your desire, Feeling the emptiness growing inside you, Noticing how you willed yourself on, Still unable to leave what you had outgrown.
Awaken your spirit to adventure; Hold nothing back, learn to find ease in risk; Soon you will be home in a new rhythm, For your soul senses the world that awaits you.
Lots of helping and sharing by kids at this year’s Easter egg hunt
At church lately, we’ve had many small, beautiful reminders of why community matters.
On Easter Sunday, after a lovely all-ages worship, our sanctuary filled with joy during the traditional egg hunt. What made it especially meaningful was noticing that many of the youth hiding eggs were once the children searching for them. The same was abundantly apparent at our recent Families TUUgether (our monthly evening of free childcare,) where teens who were once cared for are now offering that same care with skill, fun, understanding, and love.
This is the quiet, powerful gift of community: love that doesn’t just happen once, but is planted, grows, and is passed on.
In a time that can feel uncertain and overwhelming, when there is so much pressure to keep up, stay busy, and give our children every possible opportunity, it’s easy to lose sight of what actually sustains them and us. The communities we choose, and how we show up within them, shape how we respond to challenge, change, and to one another. It doesn’t happen immediately by jumping in up to our necks; it takes making manageable steps over and over.
Nature-based mentoring practices remind us that spring is a time of awakening and orienting. Instead of jumping straight into the hard work of bearing fruit, it’s a time to set the compass, clarify intentions, and make sure we have what we need before beginning. Before the big energy of summer growth, this season invites us to pay attention to what seeds we’re planting. When we take even a little time to ground ourselves this way, we often move through what’s ahead using energy efficiently and toward what we truly want.
This is how a spiral of connection, resilience, and meaning grows.
Intentional community spaces offer something essential. Here, people are known across time. Children are given chances not only to receive care, but to become people who offer it. They experience belonging not as something to earn, but as something to grow into—and to help others grow into.
As the pace of life zooms around us, this is an invitation to pay attention. To pause on the morning doorstep, to greet the day (perhaps with a life-giving cup of coffee), to notice, and to choose connection to what is essential. To trust that what we build slowly, together, will carry our children and ourselves far beyond any single season. And yes, this can seem ridiculously out of reach at times, so please do let us know what you would need, what would help.
Reach out any time and often, and remember that we are here loving you.
Spread the word: Registration is open for Roots Summer Program! This is a weeklong adventure for kids ages 5 and up, which centers community and connection through play, exploration, and service. There is a Counselor-In-Training option for kids 12-17. Registration is open to the wider community and scholarships are available! For more info and to register: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/
Practice “Rose, Bud & Thorn” at dinner: This is one of our rituals in RE programs. Each person shares one thing they’re happy about (rose), one thing they are looking forward to (bud), and one hard thing from their day (thorn).
Practice speaking up: role-play what to say if someone is excluded or treated unfairly. This is good for people of all ages!
Spring Church Theme Connections
Paying Attention: Take a 1-minute pause outside–notice 3 things you see, 3 things you hear, and take one slow breath.
Embracing Possibility: Challenge each other to take one small risk each: trying out for something, introducing yourself, raising a hand, trying a new hobby.
Awakening Curiosity: Keep a family “wonder list” on the fridge—questions you don’t know the answers to. Look up one question together each week, in books, asking people who might know, watching a show on the topic, etc.
Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:
Building the Possible, written by Rev Scott Tayler, inspired by and with use of the words of John Schaar
May this flame cast its light toward the coming days, reminding us that “the future is not simply a place we are going, but a place we are creating.” A new world is waiting, friends, not to be found, but to be built. May our time together light the way.
Young Church kids building a barn for pageant Sunday
Dear Families,
Many of us are unsettled or even frightened by the news in our country right now. Children and youth are often picking up bits and pieces of information—sometimes conflicting—and they vary widely in whether they want to talk about what they’re hearing, or not at all. In times like these, having tools for age-appropriate conversations, as well as support and self-care for adult caregivers, can make a real difference.
Leaning into community and grounding ourselves in our shared values can be powerful ways to navigate difficult moments. I’ll admit my bias—but this is exactly what we strive to offer at South Church: spaces of connection, care, and meaning for people of all ages. If there is something you and your family need that we are not currently offering, please reach out. We are always open to listening and to co-creating what is most life-giving within this sacred community.
Below, you’ll find information about the programs and gatherings coming up this month. We hope you’ll find something that meets you where you are.
Please reach out any time and often ❤️
Sunday, January 18th
Multigenerational Worship – 10:00 am Join us for an all-ages worship service centered on the Civil Rights Movement. Children, youth, and adults are encouraged to remain together in the sanctuary for this informative, engaging, and inspiring time. Our shared history is essential for understanding—and shaping—our present and future. The nursery will be available for babies and toddlers, and they are also warmly welcome in the sanctuary. Multigenerational Sundays help children grow up knowing the value, comfort, and spiritual grounding found in shared community worship.
No RE Programs this weekend. Young Church, Coming of Age, OWL, and Youth Group will not meet this Sunday, due to the holiday weekend. Everyone is encouraged to attend worship!
Registration is now open for Roots Summer Program! This is a weeklong adventure for kids ages 5 and up, which centers community and connection through play, exploration, and service. There is a Counselor-In-Training option for kids 12-17. Registration is open to the wider community and scholarships are available. Space is limited! For more info and to register: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/
Cozy concert or wild rumpus? Maybe BOTH! Don’t miss this joyful event for families and friends! Enjoy musical charades and quirky 17th-century chamber music inspired by the animal kingdom and beloved stories Hippos Go Berserk! and Where the Wild Things Are. Music by Biber and Farina, performed on violin and theorbo.
January 24, 3:00 pm at South Church Perfect for kids and adults alike—invite your friends! Snacks and activities follow the concert. Suggested donation: Adults $12, Kids $5, Families $25. Pay what you can—everyone is welcome.
January Church Theme is “Practicing Resistance”
Side With Love’s “30 Days of Love” will run 1/19 through 2/16. Each week will have a theme and resources for adults, kids, and families to learn, contemplate, act, and ground in our faith by centering love. Check it out here: https://sidewithlove.org/30daysoflove
It’s been a fun a light summer at church, with playful all-ages RE sessions outdoors during worship each week. Plus, we had our first-ever Roots Summer Program week in August and it was SO MUCH FUN!! We worked together to create healthy, affirming relationships while playing, creating, and exploring. We are excited to offer Roots again next summer, so stay tuned for registration opening in early January!
Now it’s time to settle back into some structure and active learning, with summer fading into the rear view. That doesn’t mean the fun will stop. Not at all. It means we will find interesting and creative ways to strengthen our UU identity and deepen our connections to each other while growing in a thousand kinds of ways.
Sunday, September 7th is our annual Water Ingathering worship. This marks the official start of the church year. Everyone is invited to bring in a small container of water from your favorite places–beaches you’ve visited over the summer, a mountain stream, your own kitchen sink–anywhere you’d like. We will combine all of the water, adding in some from all previous years of this tradition. We then use this special potion-elixir-sacred solution in ceremonies and rituals like baby dedications, bridging, and more.
New, this year, we are SO EXCITED to offer Maxwell’s Sundae Bar at social hour after Water Ingathering worship! We’ll have ice cream and all the toppings, including gluten free and dairy free options! Bring you family, bring your friends! This celebration is open to ALL!
Registering for the RE Year
Our regular Religious Education programs will begin in a few weeks. Please register your kids so we can plan our classes and keep everyone safe and connected. Registration is easy and does not come with any obligations: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/re-registration-for-children-and-youth/
Events Coming Up:
Sunday 9/21 RE Volunteer Training and Lunch 12:00-2:00. This is for new AND returning Religious Education volunteers. We will go over safety policies, get tips for guiding sessions, and do some scheduling. It’s not too late to join a volunteer team, we still have some spots to fill! You do NOT need to have experience and the schedule is flexible! Commitment is 1 to 2 Sundays per month. To learn more, reach out to JenDB
Friday 9/26 Sparks & Flames Game and Snackfest Night for any kids in grades 5 through 8! Kids can also bring their friends! Just RSVP by 4pm Weds 9/23: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
Saturday 9/27 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 9/25
September Church Theme is “Building Belonging”
Suicide Prevention Month, World Suicide Prevention Day is Sept. 10
We light this chalice in honor of the families we build, the circles we choose, the bonds shaped by care. May this flame remind us that love is the tie that makes us kin.
Water Ingathering Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. This is a multigenerational worship, so all children remain in the sanctuary. There are no RE classes today.
Nursery is not staffed today–babies and toddlers should stay in worship!
Sundae Bar to celebrate the start of the church year! During social hour, following worship
18 Teenagers + 9 Adults + 2 Vans + 1 Big House = 1 Successful, Exhausting, Bucket-Filling Youth Trip To Baltimore
4 Volunteers + 24 Children + ∞Bubbles + XHandmade Pinwheels + 3 Games + Snacks = A Bunch Of Fun Summer Sunday RE Mornings So Far
85 South Church Folks Ages 1 to 80 + 450 Lime Rickeys + 3 Days of Ideal Weather = 70 Hours of Quality Connection Time On Star Island
Now a Church Math Challenge for you:
Q: A person connects with South Church and they take two dozen gluten-free cookies to social hour, on their way to volunteering to play in RE. How many possibilities for participating in building a solid community will exist if there are 400 other people who are also connected to that church?
A: There will be infinite possibilities to be part of building a strong and healthy community that can help sustain when the world seems pretty dark.
We are very busy preparing for a fantastic new church year, which will begin with Water Ingathering on September 7th. Age- and theme-based Religious Education groups will begin later that month.
We need adults who are interested in participating with our kids! No experience needed, scheduling is flexible, and we will give all the support you need. PLEASE REACH OUT to let us know you would like to explore what might be a good fit! jendeldeo@resouthchurchuu.org
Also, for the immediate future, we will be running our Roots Summer Program Aug 11-15! We are looking for adult and teen volunteers to help with fun activities, games, and before and after care. If you have a time slot or more that you could come play with us, please reach out ASAP to JenDB! Fun and joy are guaranteed!
Bottom line is that RE opportunities at South Church are a magical way of filling your bucket if you are feeling stressed, tired, sad, frustrated with the news, or really for any kind of way you are feeling. Volunteerism can feel unappetizing when we are already feeling at capacity, but it can actually often increase our capacity for holding hard things because of the perspective and joy it can bring. Give us a try!
It’s RE Registration Time!
It is already time to register all children and youth again for the ’25/’26 church year! We do annual registrations so we can stay updated on how to best serve children, youth, and families. Please take just a few minutes to register all kids ages birth through 18. It’s easy and helps us tremendously, including help with program planning. There are no obligations for attendance once you register, and we never share your info. You can complete an easy form online at https://southchurchuu.wufoo.com/forms/k60588f1mfaort/ or pick up a paper version at church. THANK YOU!!
Summer Church Theme Is ”Play!”
All summer, we hold an all-ages RE option during worship. Kids meet either downstairs or outdoors, depending on weather and planned activities. These sessions are light and fun, focused on community building and joy. Alternatively, children are always invited to remain in the sanctuary for the duration of worship.
Also, check out our lending library table near the big desk downstairs, for a rotating selection of kids’ social justice books that are available to borrow! Please sign the books out, and then bring them back and sign them in within a few weeks so that others may enjoy them.
Here we are, already in the wild wrapping up process that comes with this time of year!
Looking toward our annual Bridging worship on June 1st, we have several elements that will involve congregants:
Child Dedication: Do you have a child you would like to include? Child dedications are a cherished tradition in our UU community—an opportunity to formally welcome children into the life of our congregation and for all of us to dedicate ourselves to nurturing and supporting them as they grow. If you’d like to participate or learn more, please reach out to either JenDB (jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org) or Kirsten H (kirsten@southchurch-uu.org). We’d love to include you and your child in this beautiful ritual of connection and commitment! If June 1st doesn’t work for your family, we’re happy to arrange a dedication at another time with you.
Bridging Parade: This sweet tradition honors all kids finishing another year of learning, plus all adults who are marking any kind of significant transition.
Honoring High School Seniors: We will have a special blessing for our Bridging seniors, with a special part for parents. Reach out to Jen or Kirsten for more info!
RE Volunteer Appreciation: Our volunteers generously give their time and hearts toward nurturing our kids as they grow in our faith. You can help honor them by donating supplies for a breakfast that will be just for them. Sign up here if you would like to help (RE Vols, please don’t bring anything! Let us celebrate you 😍): https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C054BAEA82FA31-56934812-revolunteer
Special events for May:
Saturday 5/10 Visioning Workshop: Help imagine the future of South Church, open to all. Childcare is available, just please let us know if you will need that by emailing JenDB by Weds 5/7
Saturday 5/10 & Sun 5/11: Mother’s Day Plant Sale fundraiser by youth traveling to GA. Hanging flowering plants will be available for sale before and after the Visioning Workshop on Sat and after church on Sun.
Friday 5/16 Sparks & Flames Ice Cream Sundae and Play Night for any kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 4pm Weds 5/14: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
Saturday 5/17 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 5/15
Sunday 5/18 Prepared Meals Sale youth group fundraiser. Corn chowder, bean salad, and zucchini bread will be available to purchase and take home after worship.
Sunday 5/18 Discussion Group for Parents of Trans/Nonbinary Children, Youth and Young Adults 11:45-12:45 in the Carson Parlor. A safe space for parents to connect and share stories and resources. FMI reach out to JenDB
Sunday 6/1 BRIDGING SUNDAY! Multigenerational worship. We will have a child dedication, stepping up parade for all kids and adults who are marking milestones, and we will honor our graduating high school seniors. Families–don’t miss this one!
Roots Summer Program! Registration is OPEN for our special summer offering for kids. Roots is a weeklong summer camp-style program that will be focused on fun, community, and building connections. This is a great opportunity to invite friends to experience what South Church offers. Spread the word! Aug 11-15 Info and registration links can be found at: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/
May Church Theme is “Imagination”
350NH’s Youth Leadership Retreat! July 25-27. This is an amazing opportunity for anyone entering high school this fall, through those who are graduating now. It is a fantastic, low-cost, 2-night/3-day program. Deadline to apply is June 25th: https://www.350nh.org/youth-retreat
May Shared Plate Organization: National Alliance of Mental Illness of New Hampshire. NAMI NH is a grassroots organization working to improve the quality of life for all by providing support, education and advocacy for people affected by mental illness and suicide.
Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here.
Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Matt Meyer
Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade will meet downstairs following the TFAA
8th Grade Coming of Age does not meet today because of Wilderness Retreat
Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30, 73 Court St
Saturday, May 10th:
Coming of Age worship rehearsal, 8:30-10:30 in sanctuary
Saturday, May 10th-Sun May 11th:
South Church Visioning Weekend! Visioning workshop for the South Church community Saturday 2:00-5:00, with a summary/reflection presentation after worship Sunday. Childcare is available, contact Jen DB.
Mother’s Day Plant Sale! Our high school youth group will be selling hanging outdoor plants before and after the Saturday workshop and after worship on Sunday.
Sunday, May 11th:
Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA
8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, no Mentors.
Senior Youth does not meet today
Friday, May 16th:
Sparks & Flames Social Group for Grades 5 thru 8: Ice cream sundaes and PLAY! 7-9pm, RSVP to JenDB
Saturday, May 17th:
Families Tuugether! We will have a parent potluck as our final session for the summer. Contact JenDB to register.
Sunday, May 18th:
Coming of Age Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by 8th grade CoA Youth
Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
RE classes for Pre-K through 5th grade meet downstairs following TFAA
Grades 6 & 7 should stay for worship!
Parents of Trans/NB Youth/YA Support Group 11:30-12:30 Carson Parlor
Senior Youth meets for Learning Session 4, 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
Sunday, May 25th:
Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Kirsten
Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
All-ages RE offering will meet downstairs following TFAA
Senior Youth does not meet today
Saturday, June 1st:
Bridging Sunday! Multigenerational Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube.
Nursery will not be staffed today
No RE classes today–worship is for EVERYONE today!
Our high school youth group led a spectacular worship on February 2nd. It’s so cool to watch the way they can create healthy community when they show up again and again, willing to be vulnerable, to play, and to work through discomfort. They talk often about how it’s hard to join a new group but that when they stick with it and practice having real conversations it creates a place of trust where they can be their whole selves and they can navigate the world outside of church more confidently.
We start this process in RE from the very beginning. Our Nursery is about playing, making friends, and learning to be comfortable at church. Young Church builds trust through check ins that get deeper as kids get comfortable and know each other. Weekly check ins continue for every program, and conversations become more substantial and meaningful.
This process is very much helped by regular attendance. We recognize that this isn’t possible for many families, with so many other obligations in our kids’ young lives filling their schedules. Church is not mandatory. But the rewards of participating in this community throughout our lives end up being greater as we put more in. This is not meant to put guilt on anyone. Church has been here for 200 years and is here and yours whenever you’re able to be here.
Special events for April:
Sunday 4/13 Discussion Group for Parents of Trans/Nonbinary Children, Youth and Young Adults 11:45-12:45 in the Carson Parlor. A safe space for parents to connect and share stories and resources. FMI reach out to JenDB
Friday 4/18 Sparks & Flames Movie and Ice Cream Sundae Night for any kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 4pm Weds 4/16: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
Saturday 4/19 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 4/17
Sunday 4/20 Easter! Multigenerational worship followed by traditional Easter Egg Hunt! Nursery will not be staffed and no RE classes, children of all ages are welcome to remain in the sanctuary. Following worship, kids can meet on the front steps to wait for Egg Hunt instructions.
Roots Summer Program! Registration is OPEN for our special summer offering for kids. Roots is a weeklong summer camp-style program that will be focused on fun, community, and building connections. This is a great opportunity to invite friends to experience what South Church offers. Spread the word! Info and registration links can be found at: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/
April Church Theme is “Joy”
Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
Laughing exercise: Did you know that some people say pretending to cry and bending over at the same time triggers spontaneous laughter? Give it a try just for the fun of it!
Directions: Stand straight up, as you are able, then bend all the way down to the floor, pretending to cry loudly the whole way. Then come back up slowly. Most people will naturally begin laughing as they rise. Do it a couple times to try to experience it.
Jokes for the whole family: Jokes can help people laugh together and create joy. Try some of these.
Body percussion: Follow along to one of these fun videos to embody music joyfully:
Emotions dance party: Music and movement can help us process and feel all kinds of emotion. Try to think of a song that represents a specific emotion. Put the song on and move your body however the music makes you feel. Try a different emotion with a song that seems to match that emotion. Notice how you feel after each one. End with a high energy joyful song and take that joy into your next activity!
Books/stories relevant to this month: Read or watch videos of these stories…
“The Little Book of Joy,” by Desmond Tutu and Dalai Lama (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
“Music is in Everything,” by Ziggy Marley (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
“The Hike,” by Alison Farrell (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
“Rain,” by Linda Ashman (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
April Shared Plate Organization
Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:
It’s Flung Rev. Scott Tayler
Joy doesn’t simply arise
It flies. It flings. No, it is flung.
It is passed, it is spread, between you and me, between the one who just received a gift and the one that has been looking for it, for oh so long. It’s a beautiful and elegant contagion, over which we have more control than we know. If only we share it. If only we notice that joy is not ours to keep, but ours to pass on. So let’s light up the world, friends! Joy blesses us with its exuberance, so we can make that blessing grow.
There has been a barrage of orders from Washington in the last couple of weeks that are definitively out of line with our UU values. We are seeing an assault on the rights of, and even the very existence of, trans, nonbinary and intersex people. There are orders to immediately stop all initiatives connected to Diversity, Equity and Inclusion (DEI), which are meant to move us toward a more fair and antiracist society. There are already several moves to undo progress toward protecting our planet and slowing climate change, including deregulation, pulling out of the Paris Climate Agreement, and more. And there is an order to stop all federal grant money, which would affect countless programs, including food assistance for families.
So what do we do? We come back to small community, where we remember to focus on what is important. Where we look for opportunities to act on our values. And where we can surround our children with role models who share those values.
Justice, Equity, Transformation, Pluralism, Interdependence, and Generosity, with Love at the center. This is what we agree to work toward as Unitarian Universalists. When we keep explicitly naming these, we will naturally know how to live in challenging times.
Special events for February:
Parents of a child, youth or young adult who identifies as nonbinary or trans: Rev. Ellen and Jen Del Deo-Barry will be offering an opportunity to gather, connect, hear one another, and talk about how we can support you. Please email one or both of us if you would like to participate. We will set a date and time that works for most respondents. jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org, revellen@southchurch-uu.org
Sun 2/2 Youth-led worship: Our high school teens will offer worship, starting off the February church theme of Inclusion.
Friday 2/14 Sparks & Flames Game Night for kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 4pm Weds 2/12: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
Saturday 2/15 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 2/13
Saturday 2/22 Winter Walk for All Ages at Great Bay National Wildlife Refuge, 3 Arboretum Dr, Newington. 10-11:30am. Join South Church friends for some time in nature! (Note, dogs are not allowed at GBNWR.)
Registration is OPEN for our special summer offering for kids! Roots is a weeklong summer camp-style program that will be focused on fun, community, and building connections. This is a great opportunity to invite friends to experience what South Church offers. Spread the word! Info and registration links can be found at: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/
February Church Theme is “Inclusion”
Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
Join the Winter Walk at Great Bay National Wildlife Refuge, 2/22 10am. Join South Church friends for some quality time in nature. Invite friends!
Make a dinner for unhoused families during South Church’s week with Seacoast Family Promise. Sign up HERE or email for more info: southchurchsfpcoordinator@gmail.com
Check out Side With Love’s 30 Days of Love, for activities, videos, and more: https://sidewithlove.org
Books/stories relevant to this month: Read or watch videos of these stories…
“Mushroom in the Rain,” by V Suteyev, book or watch here
“Strictly No Elephants,” by Lisa Mantchev and Taeeun Yoo, watch here.
“Everybody’s Welcome,” by Patricia Hegarty, watch here.
February Shared Plate Organization: Black Lives Matter NH. (In September 2023, BLM Seacoast, Manchester, and Nashua merged). The mission of BLMNH is to dismantle anti-Blackness, eradicate systemic racism, champion racial equality, combat racial injustices, put an end to police brutality, and advocate for justice for all Black lives in New Hampshire. Learn more at www.blmnh.org
Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:
The Names of Love, byRev. Scott Tayler
We light this chalice in the names of love. The love of family that brings us into being, allows us to bloom, and then sends us on our way with courage, knowing we can return no matter what. The love of partnered hearts that teach us to trust and help us know that who we are does not end at the barrier of our own skin. The love of friends who help us feel seen and sing our song back to us when we cannot hear it with our ears alone. The love of community that baths us in belonging and calls us to see the needs of others as our own. And the greatest love: the love that will not let us go, even in our fear, even in our failure, even when we are lonely or lost. Love invites us home. If we listen, it is doing so, even today.
We hope you find 2025 to be filled with meaning, joy and connection. Here are a few upcoming opportunities for all of these at church (and scroll way down for the full month’s calendar):
Tues 12/31 New Year’s Eve Celebrations:
Chili Dinner Fundraiser! To benefit our high school youth trip to Baltimore. Bring the whole family (and friends too!) to have dinner together at South Church.. SO MANY different chili varieties to choose from! (suggested donation $10/person. To-go chili is available!)
New Year’s Eve Fireworks: 7:30 PM Head outside and look up! Fireworks, Courtesy of the City of Portsmouth, will fill the sky just a block from South Church!
The Last Blast Benefit concert – Then, head back to South Church to dance and groove to some great music as we say goodby to 2024 and welcome a new year! Proceeds to benefit the Continuum Arts Collective AND South Church! Music will be provided by The Reconstructed and Natalia Rothwell, KIDS ARE FREE (up to age 18) $25 in advance for adult or $30 at the door. Get your tickets HERE
Sunday 1/5 New Year Worship and Ritual of Leaving as Kirsten begins her sabbatical.
Friday 1/17 Sparks & Flames Ice Skating for kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 5pm Tues 1/14 for details and to get tickets before they’re gone: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org (Bad weather backup plan will be movie night!)
Saturday 1/18
Seacoast People’s March Rally 1:00- 3:00pm@South Church
Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 1/16
Monday 1/20 8:30am-noon Annual NAACP MLK Jr Breakfast, Music, and Program (Free) Located at South Church
Do you have any thoughts or questions about how to engage your children (or yourself) in this community? There are so many ways to be involved at church, and no one thing is the right fit for everyone. Reach out to us if you’d like to talk about options–this kind of matchmaking is one of our favorite things to do!
If you still haven’t registered your kids for the current RE year, please do it now! This is an easy but incredibly helpful task and it doesn’t come with any obligation to attend regularly. Click HERE to fill out the online form.
January Church Theme is “Story”
Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
Make an evening of storytelling with your family, or, better yet, invite friends! Ask each person to share a story from their life. Maybe even add a prompt, like:
What is the story of a moment that ended up significantly influencing who you are today?
What is the story of a time when you did something that scared you, and how did that affect you?
What is the story of your earliest memory?
Volunteer to tell or help tell, the Time For All Ages one Sunday in worship! This can be as a family, as a parent-child pair, or as an individual. We will offer all the support you need. Contact Jen DB or Reverend Ellen for more info.
Books/stories relevant to this month: Read or watch videos of these stories…
“The Tale of the Sankofa Bird,” By April Rosario, read here
“The Day You Begin,” by Jacqueline Woodson, book or watch here
January Shared Plate Organization: Lovering Health Center “It Is Our Passion To Honor, Respect, And Advocate…for the right of everyone to maintain freedom and choices regarding their own sexual and reproductive health. https://joangloveringhealthcenter.org
Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:
“Inscribing our pages with hope…“
Rev. Dr. David Breeden
We tender this flame, opening the book, turning to a page yet to be written. Opening a story yet to be told.
May we fill this fresh page wisely. May we write a new story into being. May we together inscribe the page with hope.