Dear Families,

Many of us are unsettled or even frightened by the news in our country right now. Children and youth are often picking up bits and pieces of information—sometimes conflicting—and they vary widely in whether they want to talk about what they’re hearing, or not at all. In times like these, having tools for age-appropriate conversations, as well as support and self-care for adult caregivers, can make a real difference.

The UUA has shared some thoughtful resources that may be helpful to your family, including “Hate, Violence, and Trauma: Supporting Families, Children, Youth, and Congregations.” I encourage you to take a look if it feels supportive right now.

Leaning into community and grounding ourselves in our shared values can be powerful ways to navigate difficult moments. I’ll admit my bias—but this is exactly what we strive to offer at South Church: spaces of connection, care, and meaning for people of all ages. If there is something you and your family need that we are not currently offering, please reach out. We are always open to listening and to co-creating what is most life-giving within this sacred community.

Below, you’ll find information about the programs and gatherings coming up this month. We hope you’ll find something that meets you where you are.

Please reach out any time and often ❤️

Registration is now open for Roots Summer Program! This is a weeklong adventure for kids ages 5 and up, which centers community and connection through play, exploration, and service. There is a Counselor-In-Training option for kids 12-17. Registration is open to the wider community and scholarships are available. Space is limited! For more info and to register: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/

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January Church Theme is “Practicing Resistance”

• Side With Love’s “30 Days of Love” will run 1/19 through 2/16. Each week will have a theme and resources for adults, kids, and families to learn, contemplate, act, and ground in our faith by centering love. Check it out here: https://sidewithlove.org/30daysoflove
• Read or watch: “The Smallest Girl In the Smallest Grade,” by Justin Roberts
• January shared plate organization: Planned Parenthood of Northern New England

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• Sunday, January 4th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. 
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Coming of Age (8th Grade) meets 9:45-11:15 at 73 Court St
  • 10th-12th Grade OWL meets 2:00-3:30 at 73 Court St
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4:00-5:30 in Milk Classroom
  • High School Youth Group meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, January 11th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. 
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Coming of Age (8th Grade) meets 9:45-11:15 at 73 Court St
  • 10th-12th Grade OWL meets 2:00-3:30 at 73 Court St
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4:00-5:30 in Milk Classroom
  • High School Youth Group meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, January 18th:
  • All-ages Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. 
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE Volunteer Check In 11:30-12:15 in Piscataqua Room
  • RE classes do not meet today! Come to worship 🙂
  • OWL and Youth Group do not meet today
• Saturday, January 24th:
  • Cozy Concert! 3pm in the sanctuary, with snacks and activities to follow
• Sunday, January 25th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. 
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Coming of Age (8th Grade) meets 9:45-11:15 at 73 Court St
  • 10th-12th Grade OWL meets 2:00-3:30 at 73 Court St
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4:00-5:30 in Milk Classroom
  • High School Youth Group meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Saturday, January 31st:
  • High School Youth Group Overnight at church
• Sunday, February 1st:
  • Youth-led worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. 
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Coming of Age (8th Grade) meets 9:45-11:15 at 73 Court St
  • 10th-12th Grade OWL does NOT meet today
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4:00-5:30 in Milk Classroom
  • High School Youth Group will not meet in the afternoon.

It’s been a fun a light summer at church, with playful all-ages RE sessions outdoors during worship each week. Plus, we had our first-ever Roots Summer Program week in August and it was SO MUCH FUN!! We worked together to create healthy, affirming relationships while playing, creating, and exploring. We are excited to offer Roots again next summer, so stay tuned for registration opening in early January!

Now it’s time to settle back into some structure and active learning, with summer fading into the rear view. That doesn’t mean the fun will stop. Not at all. It means we will find interesting and creative ways to strengthen our UU identity and deepen our connections to each other while growing in a thousand kinds of ways.

Sunday, September 7th is our annual Water Ingathering worship. This marks the official start of the church year. Everyone is invited to bring in a small container of water from your favorite places–beaches you’ve visited over the summer, a mountain stream, your own kitchen sink–anywhere you’d like. We will combine all of the water, adding in some from all previous years of this tradition. We then use this special potion-elixir-sacred solution in ceremonies and rituals like baby dedications, bridging, and more.

New, this year, we are SO EXCITED to offer Maxwell’s Sundae Bar at social hour after Water Ingathering worship! We’ll have ice cream and all the toppings, including gluten free and dairy free options! Bring you family, bring your friends! This celebration is open to ALL!

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Registering for the RE Year

Our regular Religious Education programs will begin in a few weeks. Please register your kids so we can plan our classes and keep everyone safe and connected. Registration is easy and does not come with any obligations: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/re-registration-for-children-and-youth/

Events Coming Up:

• Sunday 9/21 RE Volunteer Training and Lunch 12:00-2:00. This is for new AND returning Religious Education volunteers. We will go over safety policies, get tips for guiding sessions, and do some scheduling. It’s not too late to join a volunteer team, we still have some spots to fill! You do NOT need to have experience and the schedule is flexible! Commitment is 1 to 2 Sundays per month. To learn more, reach out to JenDB
• Friday 9/26 Sparks & Flames Game and Snackfest Night for any kids in grades 5 through 8! Kids can also bring their friends! Just RSVP by 4pm Weds 9/23: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org 
• Saturday 9/27 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 9/25

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September Church Theme is “Building Belonging”

• Suicide Prevention Month, World Suicide Prevention Day is Sept. 10
  • 9/20/25 Portsmouth Out of the Darkness walk, hosted by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
• International Peace Day Sept. 21 (Info HERE)
• Story of the first Water Communion (like our Ingathering tradition)
• World Gratitude Day – Sept. 21
• September Shared Plate Organization: Gather: https://www.gathernh.org

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:

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• Sunday, September 7th:
  • Water Ingathering Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. This is a multigenerational worship, so all children remain in the sanctuary. There are no RE classes today.
  • Nursery is not staffed today–babies and toddlers should stay in worship!
  • Sundae Bar to celebrate the start of the church year! During social hour, following worship
• Sunday, September 14th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube.
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Kids older than 7th grade remain in worship or be a helper in RE today!
• Sunday, September 21st:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube.
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Kids older than 7th grade remain in worship or be a helper in RE today!
  • RE Volunteer Training and Lunch, 12:00-2:00
• Thursday, September 25th:
  • Coming of Age Family Orientation and Opening Ceremony 6:30-8pm. For all 8th graders and their families
• Friday, September 26th:
  • Sparks & Flames Game Night and Snackfest, 7-9p. For all 5th-8th graders, friends are welcome! Please RSVP by 5pm Weds 9/24 for details.
• Saturday, September 27th:
  • Families Tuugether, free babysitting night for families! 5-8pm, must RSVP: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Sunday, September 28th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube.
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Kids older than 7th grade remain in worship or be a helper in RE today!

Sleepy departure from our beloved home base

Church Math:

18 Teenagers + 9 Adults + 2 Vans + 1 Big House = 1 Successful, Exhausting, Bucket-Filling Youth Trip To Baltimore

4 Volunteers + 24 Children + ∞Bubbles + XHandmade Pinwheels + 3 Games + Snacks = A Bunch Of Fun Summer Sunday RE Mornings So Far

85 South Church Folks Ages 1 to 80 + 450 Lime Rickeys + 3 Days of Ideal Weather = 70 Hours of Quality Connection Time On Star Island

Now a Church Math Challenge for you:

Q: A person connects with South Church and they take two dozen gluten-free cookies to social hour, on their way to volunteering to play in RE. How many possibilities for participating in building a solid community will exist if there are 400 other people who are also connected to that church?

A: There will be infinite possibilities to be part of building a strong and healthy community that can help sustain when the world seems pretty dark.

We are very busy preparing for a fantastic new church year, which will begin with Water Ingathering on September 7th. Age- and theme-based Religious Education groups will begin later that month.

We need adults who are interested in participating with our kids! No experience needed, scheduling is flexible, and we will give all the support you need. PLEASE REACH OUT to let us know you would like to explore what might be a good fit! jendeldeo@resouthchurchuu.org

Also, for the immediate future, we will be running our Roots Summer Program Aug 11-15! We are looking for adult and teen volunteers to help with fun activities, games, and before and after care. If you have a time slot or more that you could come play with us, please reach out ASAP to JenDB! Fun and joy are guaranteed!

Bottom line is that RE opportunities at South Church are a magical way of filling your bucket if you are feeling stressed, tired, sad, frustrated with the news, or really for any kind of way you are feeling. Volunteerism can feel unappetizing when we are already feeling at capacity, but it can actually often increase our capacity for holding hard things because of the perspective and joy it can bring. Give us a try!

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It’s RE Registration Time!

It is already time to register all children and youth again for the ’25/’26 church year! We do annual registrations so we can stay updated on how to best serve children, youth, and families. Please take just a few minutes to register all kids ages birth through 18. It’s easy and helps us tremendously, including help with program planning. There are no obligations for attendance once you register, and we never share your info. You can complete an easy form online at https://southchurchuu.wufoo.com/forms/k60588f1mfaort/ or pick up a paper version at church. THANK YOU!!

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Summer Church Theme Is ”Play!”

All summer, we hold an all-ages RE option during worship. Kids meet either downstairs or outdoors, depending on weather and planned activities. These sessions are light and fun, focused on community building and joy. Alternatively, children are always invited to remain in the sanctuary for the duration of worship.

Also, check out our lending library table near the big desk downstairs, for a rotating selection of kids’ social justice books that are available to borrow! Please sign the books out, and then bring them back and sign them in within a few weeks so that others may enjoy them.

Here we are, already in the wild wrapping up process that comes with this time of year!

Looking toward our annual Bridging worship on June 1st, we have several elements that will involve congregants:

• Child Dedication: Do you have a child you would like to include? Child dedications are a cherished tradition in our UU community—an opportunity to formally welcome children into the life of our congregation and for all of us to dedicate ourselves to nurturing and supporting them as they grow. If you’d like to participate or learn more, please reach out to either JenDB (jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org) or Kirsten H (kirsten@southchurch-uu.org). We’d love to include you and your child in this beautiful ritual of connection and commitment! If June 1st doesn’t work for your family, we’re happy to arrange a dedication at another time with you.
• Bridging Parade: This sweet tradition honors all kids finishing another year of learning, plus all adults who are marking any kind of significant transition.
• Honoring High School Seniors: We will have a special blessing for our Bridging seniors, with a special part for parents. Reach out to Jen or Kirsten for more info!
• RE Volunteer Appreciation: Our volunteers generously give their time and hearts toward nurturing our kids as they grow in our faith. You can help honor them by donating supplies for a breakfast that will be just for them. Sign up here if you would like to help (RE Vols, please don’t bring anything! Let us celebrate you 😍): https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C054BAEA82FA31-56934812-revolunteer

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Special events for May:

• Saturday 5/10 Visioning Workshop: Help imagine the future of South Church, open to all. Childcare is available, just please let us know if you will need that by emailing JenDB by Weds 5/7
• Saturday 5/10 & Sun 5/11: Mother’s Day Plant Sale fundraiser by youth traveling to GA. Hanging flowering plants will be available for sale before and after the Visioning Workshop on Sat and after church on Sun.
• Friday 5/16 Sparks & Flames Ice Cream Sundae and Play Night for any kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 4pm Weds 5/14: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org 
• Saturday 5/17 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 5/15
• Sunday 5/18 Prepared Meals Sale youth group fundraiser. Corn chowder, bean salad, and zucchini bread will be available to purchase and take home after worship.
• Sunday 5/18 Discussion Group for Parents of Trans/Nonbinary Children, Youth and Young Adults 11:45-12:45 in the Carson Parlor. A safe space for parents to connect and share stories and resources. FMI reach out to JenDB
• Sunday 6/1 BRIDGING SUNDAY! Multigenerational worship. We will have a child dedication, stepping up parade for all kids and adults who are marking milestones, and we will honor our graduating high school seniors. Families–don’t miss this one!
• Roots Summer Program! Registration is OPEN for our special summer offering for kids. Roots is a weeklong summer camp-style program that will be focused on fun, community, and building connections. This is a great opportunity to invite friends to experience what South Church offers. Spread the word! Aug 11-15 Info and registration links can be found at: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/

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May Church Theme is “Imagination”

• 350NH’s Youth Leadership Retreat! July 25-27. This is an amazing opportunity for anyone entering high school this fall, through those who are graduating now. It is a fantastic, low-cost, 2-night/3-day program. Deadline to apply is June 25th: https://www.350nh.org/youth-retreat
• Imaginative emotional processing: Here is a fun guided meditation that uses imagination and movement to feel our feelings: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1DjNVvxRuNsO9yDBGhrxlrXmqaPOfpzayR6lY6__XkZo/edit?usp=sharing
• Stories that connect to the “Imagination” theme:
  • “They All Saw a Cat,” book by Brendan Wenze
  • “The Other Side” by Jacqueline Woodson
  • “A Day for Rememberin’: Inspired by the True Events of the First Memorial Day” by Leah Henderson
  • “The Story of Magic Paintbrush,” a Chinese folktale
• May Shared Plate Organization: National Alliance of Mental Illness of New Hampshire. NAMI NH is a grassroots organization working to improve the quality of life for all by providing support, education and advocacy for people affected by mental illness and suicide.
• Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here.
  •  Imagine resistance through rhythm—learn the Boots on the Ground dance Sundays 11:30, May 18–June 15.

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:

“The Embers of Imagination” by Rev. Michelle Collins

We light this chalice,
a spark in the darkness,
kindling the embers of imagination within us.

May its flame ignite wonder,
fuel dreams of justice,
and illuminate the path toward what could be.

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• Sunday, May 4th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Matt Meyer
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade will meet downstairs following the TFAA
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age does not meet today because of Wilderness Retreat
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30, 73 Court St
• Saturday, May 10th:
  • Coming of Age worship rehearsal, 8:30-10:30 in sanctuary
• Saturday, May 10th-Sun May 11th:
  • South Church Visioning Weekend! Visioning workshop for the South Church community Saturday 2:00-5:00, with a summary/reflection presentation after worship Sunday. Childcare is available, contact Jen DB.
  • Mother’s Day Plant Sale! Our high school youth group will be selling hanging outdoor plants before and after the Saturday workshop and after worship on Sunday.
• Sunday, May 11th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, no Mentors. 
  • Senior Youth does not meet today
• Friday, May 16th:
  • Sparks & Flames Social Group for Grades 5 thru 8: Ice cream sundaes and PLAY! 7-9pm, RSVP to JenDB
• Saturday, May 17th:
  • Families Tuugether! We will have a parent potluck as our final session for the summer. Contact JenDB to register.
• Sunday, May 18th:
  • Coming of Age Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by 8th grade CoA Youth
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 5th grade meet downstairs following TFAA
  • Grades 6 & 7 should stay for worship!
  • Parents of Trans/NB Youth/YA Support Group 11:30-12:30 Carson Parlor
  • Senior Youth meets for Learning Session 4, 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, May 25th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Kirsten
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • All-ages RE offering will meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • Senior Youth does not meet today
• Saturday, June 1st:
  • Bridging Sunday! Multigenerational Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube.
  • Nursery will not be staffed today
  • No RE classes today–worship is for EVERYONE today!

Our high school youth group led a spectacular worship on February 2nd. It’s so cool to watch the way they can create healthy community when they show up again and again, willing to be vulnerable, to play, and to work through discomfort. They talk often about how it’s hard to join a new group but that when they stick with it and practice having real conversations it creates a place of trust where they can be their whole selves and they can navigate the world outside of church more confidently.

We start this process in RE from the very beginning. Our Nursery is about playing, making friends, and learning to be comfortable at church. Young Church builds trust through check ins that get deeper as kids get comfortable and know each other. Weekly check ins continue for every program, and conversations become more substantial and meaningful.

This process is very much helped by regular attendance. We recognize that this isn’t possible for many families, with so many other obligations in our kids’ young lives filling their schedules. Church is not mandatory. But the rewards of participating in this community throughout our lives end up being greater as we put more in. This is not meant to put guilt on anyone. Church has been here for 200 years and is here and yours whenever you’re able to be here.

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Special events for April:

• Sunday 4/13 Discussion Group for Parents of Trans/Nonbinary Children, Youth and Young Adults 11:45-12:45 in the Carson Parlor. A safe space for parents to connect and share stories and resources. FMI reach out to JenDB
• Friday 4/18 Sparks & Flames Movie and Ice Cream Sundae Night for any kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 4pm Weds 4/16: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org 
• Saturday 4/19 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 4/17
• Sunday 4/20 Easter! Multigenerational worship followed by traditional Easter Egg Hunt! Nursery will not be staffed and no RE classes, children of all ages are welcome to remain in the sanctuary. Following worship, kids can meet on the front steps to wait for Egg Hunt instructions.
• Roots Summer Program! Registration is OPEN for our special summer offering for kids. Roots is a weeklong summer camp-style program that will be focused on fun, community, and building connections. This is a great opportunity to invite friends to experience what South Church offers. Spread the word! Info and registration links can be found at: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/

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April Church Theme is “Joy”

• Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
• Laughing exercise: Did you know that some people say pretending to cry and bending over at the same time triggers spontaneous laughter? Give it a try just for the fun of it!
  • Directions: Stand straight up, as you are able, then bend all the way down to the floor, pretending to cry loudly the whole way. Then come back up slowly. Most people will naturally begin laughing as they rise. Do it a couple times to try to experience it.
• Jokes for the whole family: Jokes can help people laugh together and create joy. Try some of these.
• Body percussion: Follow along to one of these fun videos to embody music joyfully:
  • “Unstoppable“ by Sia
  • “Happy” by Pharrell Williams
  • “Uptown Funk” by Bruno Mars
• Emotions dance party: Music and movement can help us process and feel all kinds of emotion. Try to think of a song that represents a specific emotion. Put the song on and move your body however the music makes you feel. Try a different emotion with a song that seems to match that emotion. Notice how you feel after each one. End with a high energy joyful song and take that joy into your next activity!
• Books/stories relevant to this month: Read or watch videos of these stories…
  • Wisdom tales with a “Joy” theme, from Soul Matters: https://docs.google.com/document/d/19z33mbyfYGBHazPk_vfusF9IChmPqsp-Y6EmV1BoYSA/edit?tab=t.0
  • “The Little Book of Joy,” by Desmond Tutu and Dalai Lama (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
  • “Music is in Everything,” by Ziggy Marley (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
  • “The Hike,” by Alison Farrell (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
  • “Rain,” by Linda Ashman (Read the book or watch the read along HERE)
• April Shared Plate Organization

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:

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• Sunday, March 30th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon sffered by Sheila Shea
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade will meet downstairs following the TFAA
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • Senior Youth trip to UUUM in Roxbury, be at church by 11am, return around 6:00p
• Sunday, April 6th:
  • Music Sunday! Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by Jonny
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, no Mentors.
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, April 13th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom. Final class, parents please join us 5:00-5:30!
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, With Mentors.
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
  • Parents of Trans/NB Youth/YA Support Group 11:30-12:30 Carson Parlor
• Friday, April 18th:
  • Sparks & Flames Movie and Sundaes Night, 7-9p. For all 5th-8th graders. Please RSVP by 5pm Weds 4/16 for details!
• Saturday, April 19th:
  • Families Tuugether, free babysitting night for families! 5-8pm, must RSVP: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Sunday, April 20th:
  • Multigenerational Easter Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Traditional egg hunt after worship! In church yard, weather permitting (indoors if raining)
  • Nursery will not be staffed, families may use the space with parental supervision.
  • RE classes will not meet today
• Sunday, April 27th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Ritual of Return with Kirsten!
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, no Mentors
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-6:00 for book discussion at Main church building
• Friday, May 2nd-Sun May 4th:
  • Coming of Age Wilderness Retreat!
• Sunday, May 4th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by Matt Meyer
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age class will not meet (end of Wilderness Retreat)
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St

There has been a barrage of orders from Washington in the last couple of weeks that are definitively out of line with our UU values. We are seeing an assault on the rights of, and even the very existence of, trans, nonbinary and intersex people. There are orders to immediately stop all initiatives connected to Diversity, Equity and Inclusion (DEI), which are meant to move us toward a more fair and antiracist society. There are already several moves to undo progress toward protecting our planet and slowing climate change, including deregulation, pulling out of the Paris Climate Agreement, and more. And there is an order to stop all federal grant money, which would affect countless programs, including food assistance for families.

So what do we do? We come back to small community, where we remember to focus on what is important. Where we look for opportunities to act on our values. And where we can surround our children with role models who share those values.

Justice, Equity, Transformation, Pluralism, Interdependence, and Generosity, with Love at the center. This is what we agree to work toward as Unitarian Universalists. When we keep explicitly naming these, we will naturally know how to live in challenging times.

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Special events for February:

• Parents of a child, youth or young adult who identifies as nonbinary or trans: Rev. Ellen and Jen Del Deo-Barry will be offering an opportunity to gather, connect, hear one another, and talk about how we can support you. Please email one or both of us if you would like to participate. We will set a date and time that works for most respondents. jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org, revellen@southchurch-uu.org
• Sun 2/2 Youth-led worship: Our high school teens will offer worship, starting off the February church theme of Inclusion.
• Friday 2/14 Sparks & Flames Game Night for kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 4pm Weds 2/12: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Saturday 2/15 Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 2/13
• Saturday 2/22 Winter Walk for All Ages at Great Bay National Wildlife Refuge, 3 Arboretum Dr, Newington. 10-11:30am. Join South Church friends for some time in nature! (Note, dogs are not allowed at GBNWR.)
• Registration is OPEN for our special summer offering for kids! Roots is a weeklong summer camp-style program that will be focused on fun, community, and building connections. This is a great opportunity to invite friends to experience what South Church offers. Spread the word! Info and registration links can be found at: https://southchurch-uu-re.org/roots-summer-program/

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February Church Theme is “Inclusion”

• Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
  • Join the Winter Walk at Great Bay National Wildlife Refuge, 2/22 10am. Join South Church friends for some quality time in nature. Invite friends!
  • Make a dinner for unhoused families during South Church’s week with Seacoast Family Promise. Sign up HERE or email for more info: southchurchsfpcoordinator@gmail.com
• Check out Side With Love’s 30 Days of Love, for activities, videos, and more: https://sidewithlove.org
• Books/stories relevant to this month: Read or watch videos of these stories…
  • “The Fox and the Stork” and other wisdom tales collected by Soul Matters for this month: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MzLQITZjlzSmrA8B_VTqxnicdVLHgWD8JWWBDTR5-E4/edit?tab=t.0
  • “Mushroom in the Rain,” by V Suteyev, book or watch here
  • “Strictly No Elephants,” by Lisa Mantchev and Taeeun Yoo, watch here.
  • “Everybody’s Welcome,” by Patricia Hegarty, watch here.
• February Shared Plate Organization: Black Lives Matter NH. (In September 2023, BLM Seacoast, Manchester, and Nashua merged). The mission of BLMNH is to dismantle anti-Blackness, eradicate systemic racism, champion racial equality, combat racial injustices, put an end to police brutality, and advocate for justice for all Black lives in New Hampshire. Learn more at www.blmnh.org

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:

The Names of Love, by Rev. Scott Tayler

We light this chalice in the names of love.
The love of family that brings us into being, allows us to bloom, and then sends us on our way with courage, knowing we can return no matter what.
The love of partnered hearts that teach us to trust and help us know that who we are does not end at the barrier of our own skin.
The love of friends who help us feel seen and sing our song back to us when we cannot hear it with our ears alone.
The love of community that baths us in belonging and calls us to see the needs of others as our own.
And the greatest love: the love that will not let us go, even in our fear, even in our failure, even when we are lonely or lost.
Love invites us home. If we listen, it is doing so, even today.

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• Saturday, February 1st:
  • Senior Youth overnight, 6:30pm arrival at church
• Sunday, February 2nd:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by high school youth group
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade will meet downstairs following the TFAA
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, no Mentors
  • Senior Youth does not meet this afternoon
• Sunday, February 9th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor for final class–parents, join us at 11:00!
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors. (Mentor check-in at 9am, Emerson Room)
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Friday, February 14th:
  • Sparks & Flames Game Night, 7-9p. For all 5th-8th graders. Please RSVP by 5pm Weds 2/12 for details!
• Saturday, February 15th:
  • Families Tuugether, free babysitting night for families! 5-8pm, must RSVP: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Sunday, February 16th:
  • Multigenerational Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rebecca Hennessy
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • 7th Grade does NOT meet today.
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Saturday, February 22nd:
  • All-Ages Winter Walk at Great Bay National Wildlife Refuge, 10-11:30am. 3 Arboretum Drive, Newington. FMI: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org, 603-956-5146
• Sunday, February 23rd:
  • Multigenerational Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 8th grade will NOT run today, worship is for all ages! 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age does not meet today–come to worship!
  • 7th Grade OWL does NOT meet today
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, March 2nd:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St

Happy New Year!

We hope you find 2025 to be filled with meaning, joy and connection. Here are a few upcoming opportunities for all of these at church (and scroll way down for the full month’s calendar):

• Tues 12/31 New Year’s Eve Celebrations:
  • Chili Dinner Fundraiser! To benefit our high school youth trip to Baltimore. Bring the whole family (and friends too!) to have dinner together at South Church.. SO MANY different chili varieties to choose from! (suggested donation $10/person. To-go chili is available!)
  • New Year’s Eve Fireworks: 7:30 PM
    Head outside and look up! Fireworks, Courtesy of the City of Portsmouth, will fill the sky just a block from South Church!
  • The Last Blast Benefit concert – 
    Then, head back to South Church to dance and groove to some great music as we say goodby to 2024 and welcome a new year! Proceeds to benefit the Continuum Arts Collective AND South Church! Music will be provided by The Reconstructed and Natalia Rothwell, KIDS ARE FREE (up to age 18) $25 in advance for adult or $30 at the door.  Get your tickets HERE 
• Sunday 1/5 New Year Worship and Ritual of Leaving as Kirsten begins her sabbatical.
• Friday 1/17 Sparks & Flames Ice Skating for kids in grades 5 through 8. RSVP by 5pm Tues 1/14 for details and to get tickets before they’re gone: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org (Bad weather backup plan will be movie night!)
• Saturday 1/18
  • Seacoast People’s March Rally 1:00- 3:00pm@South Church
  • Families Tuugether free babysitting night! Parents gather for a time of connection before heading out for a couple of hours, while we play with your kids! For families with kids ages 3 months and older. RSVP by 4pm Thurs 1/16
• Monday 1/20 8:30am-noon Annual NAACP MLK Jr Breakfast, Music, and Program (Free) Located at South Church

Do you have any thoughts or questions about how to engage your children (or yourself) in this community? There are so many ways to be involved at church, and no one thing is the right fit for everyone. Reach out to us if you’d like to talk about options–this kind of matchmaking is one of our favorite things to do! 

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January Church Theme is “Story”

• Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
  • Make an evening of storytelling with your family, or, better yet, invite friends! Ask each person to share a story from their life. Maybe even add a prompt, like:
    • What is the story of a moment that ended up significantly influencing who you are today?
    • What is the story of a time when you did something that scared you, and how did that affect you?
    • What is the story of your earliest memory?
  • Volunteer to tell or help tell, the Time For All Ages one Sunday in worship! This can be as a family, as a parent-child pair, or as an individual. We will offer all the support you need. Contact Jen DB or Reverend Ellen for more info.
• Books/stories relevant to this month: Read or watch videos of these stories…
  • “The Tale of the Sankofa Bird,” By April Rosario, read here
  • “The Day You Begin,” by Jacqueline Woodson, book or watch here
• January Shared Plate Organization: Lovering Health Center “It Is Our Passion To Honor, Respect, And Advocate…for the right of everyone to maintain freedom and choices regarding their own sexual and reproductive health. https://joangloveringhealthcenter.org

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:

“Inscribing our pages with hope…“

Rev. Dr. David Breeden

We tender this flame, opening the book, turning to a page yet to be written. Opening a story yet to be told.

May we fill this fresh page wisely.
May we write a new story into being.
May we together inscribe the page with hope.

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• Tuesday, December 31st:
  • Chili Sale Fundraiser, 5-7pm in the Social Hall
  • Fireworks 7:30
  • Last Blast Concert in the Sanctuary, 8:30pm
• Sunday, January 5th: (Kirsten’s last day before sabbatical)
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by Kirsten and Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade will not meet today–come to worship for 2 special rituals!
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, no Mentors
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, January 12th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Friday, January 17th:
  • Sparks & Flames Ice Skating, 7-9p. For all 5th-8th graders. Parents, please RSVP by 5pm Tues 1/14 for details and ticket info!
• Saturday, January 18th:
  • Families Tuugether, free babysitting night for families! 5-8pm, must RSVP: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Sunday, January 19th:
  • Multigenerational Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a, but babies and toddlers are encouraged to stay for worship today!
  • No RE classes today–kids come to worship
  • No Senior Youth, OWL, or Coming of Age today
• Monday, January 20th:
  • NAACP MLK Breakfast and program at South Church, 8:30am-noon
• Sunday, January 26th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
  • Annual Congregational Meeting, 11:30am. If you will need child care, then email JenDB by 1/23: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Saturday, February 1st:
  • Senior Youth Group overnight and worship prep
• Sunday, February 2nd:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by High School Youth Group
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • No Youth Group meeting this afternoon
• Sunday, February 9th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor. Parents join 11-11:30 for reflection, closing, and celebration!
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30, Milk Classroom
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St

Greetings!

Here we are in the midst of a season filled with many kinds of holidays, where festivities abound. We hope you’ll include at least these three church-centered events in your calendars. These are three meaning-filled, connective traditions that are very much family friendly, where we can warm our hearts between all the many other events pulling our attention:

• Fri 12/6 Holiday Potluck and Party: This is a sweet all-ages event where everyone can share a festive meal together, sing or listen to carols, make kitschy ornaments, and revel in conversation with old and new friends. Potluck and party begin at 6pm in the Social Hall. Bring any dish to share, whether it has special meaning for you, or you pick it up from the grocery en route. If you would like to help decorate the sanctuary, join us earlier for the Hanging of the Greens at 4:00.
• Sun 12/22 Christmas Pageant: One of the most beloved worship days of the year, this is a multigenerational worship (meaning kids remain in the sanctuary for the whole service) and there is a pick up style pageant that is active, fun, and wondrous. If anyone in your family would like a special role or job for the pageant, you can email JenDB or Kirsten in advance.
• Tues 12/31 NYE Chili Sale Fundraiser for our high school youth group! 5:30-7:30p, Family pricing available. There will be LOTS of kinds of chili, plus cornbread and extras. Come have dinner in great company for a fun evening, then see the fireworks at 7:00! (also available as to-go meals)
  • If you’re able to donate a crockpot of your favorite chili or sides for our youth to include in the sale, sign up here!

Also, don’t miss this one, which is just for the kids: Holiday Market Sun 12/8 during social hour! Kids of any age (yes, teens too!) are invited to come “shop” for free for their loved ones, leaving with lovingly wrapped gifts for their people. This was really special and successful last year, and we’re grateful to Donna Waldron and the FA’s for offering it again.

There will be 2 Christmas Eve services, at 5pm and 8pm on 12/24. Generally, the 5pm worship is more lively, with lots of our families with younger kids attending, and 8pm tends to be a little quieter. But everyone of any age should come to either service!

In other news, here’s what’s been going on in our various Religious Education programs:

• Nursery is the cutest spot in the world, with some tiny regulars and some new faces joining. Our dear Nursery go above and beyond. They enjoy spending some of their personal time making play dough and sourcing other activities for our sweet toddlers and babies.
• Young Church has been following the LEGO ValUUes curriculum, with weekly stories and LEGO challenges that connect to the Article II UU values. They have also developed a strong routine around their check in, where they share “rose, bud and thorn.” This is important community pastoral care that enhances their own well-being and develops bonds with peers.
• 5th-7th Service Learning group has been small, now that many of the potential participants are in the two OWL classes that are meeting. But those who show up find an intimate setting where they learn about what various groups do at church, while performing tasks that are helpful to our community.
• Coming of Age 8th graders had an overnight fall retreat that was filled with ceremony, workshops, a wild Mount A Challenge, and breakfast with their mentors. They also have been exploring UU Identity.
• High School Youth Group had their first Learning Session connected to their year-long theme that will culminate with a trip to General Assembly in June. To support their journey, watch for their candle and fair trade sales during social hour on 12/15 & 12/22.
• Our Whole Lives (OWL) for elementary and middle school youth–Participants are doing a great job leaning into conversation and participating in various activities connected to a wide range of sexuality topics.
• Sparks & Flames social group for grades 5-8 went bowling in Nov and will have a movie night/snackfest on Dec 13th
• Families Tuugether participants are getting to know each other in meaningful ways–parents through shared conversation before their free time, and kids through play and silly antics with the coolest teens around.

Do you have any thoughts or questions about how to engage your children (or yourself) in this community? There are so many ways to be involved at church, and no one thing is the right fit for everyone. Reach out to us if you’d like to talk about options–this kind of matchmaking is one of our favorite things to do!

If you still haven’t registered your kids for the current RE year, please do it now! This is an easy but incredibly helpful task and it doesn’t come with any obligation to attend regularly. Click HERE to fill out the online form. 

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December Church Theme is “Presence”

• Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
  • Spend a set amount of time (10 mins? 30 mins?) just sitting and noticing. Maybe try a brief sense meditation: What are 5 things you can see? 4 things you can hear? 3 things you can touch/feel? 2 things you can smell? 1 thing you can taste?
  • Decide as a family on one new intentional activity you can do together, that feels in line with your values or how you want the holidays to be. Examples: make cookies for your neighbors and hand deliver them; Create gifts for the birds around your home; Do a fun gratitude activity together
• Slowing Down: Doing things that help slow our busy lives can help us repair in many kinds of ways. We’re carrying this one over from last month because it’s so good and still works for this month’s theme: “Slow Down Childhood Challenge” calendar, offered by Nicolette Sowder at Wilder Child. The calendar is for November, but can be used any time.
• Books/stories with a Presence message: Read or watch videos of these stories…
  • “Peter and the Golden Thread” by Robin Sharma, read here
  • “Twas the Night Before Yuletide” by CC Wilford, read here
  • “Winter is the Warmest Season,” by Lauren Stringer (video read aloud, or book)
  • “Winter’s Gifts,” by Kaitlin B. Curtice  (An Indigenous Celebration of Nature)  Book: Here Read-Aloud: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4OOLatVLfc 
• December Shared Plate Organization: Greater Seacoast Community Health. https://getcommunityhealth.org

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:

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• Sunday, December 1st:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Arthur Eves
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Special RE class for all kids Pre-K through 7th grade, meets downstairs following TFAA 
  • No class for OWL, Coming of Age, or Senior Youth
• Friday, December 6th:
  • Holiday Party and Potluck! 6pm in social hall (or come help decorate the sanctuary starting at 4pm!)
• Sunday, December 8th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Children’s Holiday Market open to all kids after worship!
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30p in Milk Classroom. 
  • Senior Youth meets for an extended Learning Session, 3-6p at 73 Court St
• Friday, December 13th:
  • Sparks & Flames Movie Night & Snackfest, 7-9p. For all 5th-8th graders. Parents, please RSVP by noon Thurs!
• Sunday, December 15th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:00a at 73 Court St, with Mentors
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, December 22nd:
  • PAGEANT DAY!! Multigenerational Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube.
  • Nursery is NOT staffed today–all babies and toddlers come to worship!
  • No RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade, no OWL, no Coming of Age, and no Senior Youth. Come to the Pageant!!
• Tuesday, December 24th (Christmas Eve)
  • Worship at 5:00p, in person in the sanctuary
  • Worship at 8:00p, in person in the sanctuary and live on YouTube.
• Sunday, December 29th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube.
  • Nursery is not staffed today.
  • All-ages RE fun will meet downstairs following the TFAA
  • No class today for OWL, Coming of Age, or Senior Youth
• Friday, December 6th:
  • Holiday Potluck Party and Hanging of the Greens! 
• Sunday, January 5th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Kirsten, on her last day before leaving on sabbatical
  • Children’s Holiday Market open to all kids after worship!
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30p in Milk Classroom
  • Senior Youth meets 4-5:30p at 73 Court St

Hello, Dear Families💜

Wherever you are, however your spirit feels today, know that you are tethered to a community that loves you exactly as you are, not just on Sundays, but every day. Know that your church is a place for dear humans of all ages to gather, a place to share and act on our values, a place for fun, joy and celebration, and a place for holding sorrow, fear, and grief, together. Several adults and teens have named recently that the drama and uncertainty of the election news has reminded them that they want to focus on this small, close-knit community that always centers on our core values.

We have some “extracurricular” social events coming up that give us opportunities for joy and deepening relationships! These are fantastic ways to get to know more people personally, and great opportunities for kids to love coming to church, because these are the FUN parts! Make sure to put Families Tuugether (11/23), Sparks & Flames (11/22), and the Holiday Potluck Party on your calendars (see below.)

We are seeing some new faces in the last few weeks. Please take initiative to introduce yourself to folks you don’t know. Help them know they belong here, and help connect them to sources of information–staff, website, group leads, etc.

If you still haven’t registered your kids for the current RE year, please do it now! This is an easy but incredibly helpful task and it doesn’t come with any obligation to attend regularly. Click HERE to fill out the online form.

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November Church Theme is “Repair”

• Spiritual Decathlon: This is a monthly spiritual practice that began in September. It is meant for all ages, and involves choosing one action per week (from a list or make up your own) that somehow connects to your spirituality and maybe even connects to the monthly theme. Get a gold star for each week you participate! More info here, and following are some family- or kid-friendly options for this month:
  • Write a letter to someone with whom you’ve had unresolved tension. Whether you send it or not, reflect on the experience of putting your intentions for repair into words.
  • Repair one household item as a mindfulness exercise. Think about the connection between physical and emotional “repairs” that help bring order and peace into your life.
  • Think of a time where you could have said “I’m sorry” but didn’t. How do you feel about that choice? Is there an opportunity to say it now?
• Slowing Down: Doing things that help slow our busy lives can help us repair in many kinds of ways. Check out this “Slow Down Childhood Challenge” calendar, offered by Nicolette Sowder at Wilder Child.
• Books/stories with a Repair message: Read or watch videos of these stories…
  • Speaking Out Maria Cook (read here): Story about an inspiring early Universalist
  • The Memory Tree (read here): About repairing hearts when a friend’s life is over.
  • The Parable of Cookies, Kindness, and More Cookies! (read here)
• November Shared Plate Organization: Mainspring. From their website “Mainspring offers a dignified, efficient, and effective model of care that empowers individuals to navigate the pathway out of poverty.”
  • Check out the Mainspring website to learn more about the collaborators involved with making Mainspring a “one stop shop resources center” for community care, and see how your family can help!

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:

By Jess Reynolds   

Full piece found in Love Like Thunder, a UUA meditation manual & Soul Matters “Common Shelf” Book

“Light the candle. Cup your hands around the flame and listen as it whispers. What does it say to your warm and weathered palms? …

Light the candle. Breathe against the flame and watch it ripple. Breathe your fears into it and let them burn into trails of empty gray…

Light the candle. Feel your bones melt like wax, all your hardest parts softening to the touch…”

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• Sunday, November 3rd:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 1-4:00p in the main building social hall today, with mentors!
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30p in Milk Classroom
  • Senior Youth meets 4-5:30p at Church kitchen today!
• Friday, November 8th:
  • Coming of Age retreat, 7:00p Fri until 9:30p Sat (Parents/siblings join Sat 9p for a game)
• Sunday, November 10th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Kirsten
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL does not meet today
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age does not meet today
  • 7th Grade OWL meets for extended session, 3-5:30 in Milk Classroom.
  • Senior Youth meets 4-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Sunday, November 17th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30 in the Forbes Room today
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:00a in the Milk classroom, with Mentors
  • Senior Youth meets 4:00-5:30 at main church building
• Friday, November 22nd:
  • Sparks & Flames BOWLING for kids in grades 5 through 8! 7-9pm, must RSVP: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Saturday, November 23rd:
  • Families Tuugether, free babysitting night for families! 5-8pm, must RSVP: jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org
• Sunday, November 24th:
  • Multigenerational Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Offered by Rev Ellen and Kirsten
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade DO NOT meet today–kids are encouraged to stay in worship today!
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age and Elementary (morning) OWL do NOT meet today–come to worship
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30p in the Milk classroom
  • Senior Youth meets 4-5:30p at 73 Court St for first Learning Session!
• Sunday, December 1st: 
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Arthur Eves
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • All-ages RE fun will meet downstairs following the TFAA
  • Morning and afternoon OWL classes do NOT meet today
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age and Senior Youth do NOT meet today
• Friday, December 6th:
  • Holiday Potluck Party and Hanging of the Greens!
• Sunday, December 8th:
  • Worship at 10:00a, in person and live on YouTube. Sermon offered by Rev Ellen
  • Children’s Holiday Market open to all kids after worship!
  • Nursery is staffed and open 9:30-11:30a
  • Elementary OWL meets 10-11:30a in Carson Parlor
  • RE classes for Pre-K through 7th grade meet downstairs following TFAA 
  • 8th Grade Coming of Age meets 9:45-11:15a at 73 Court St
  • 7th Grade OWL meets 4-5:30p in Milk Classroom
  • Senior Youth meets 4-5:30p at 73 Court St

Special RE program, with Quinn and owls from the Center For Wildlife

Most of our regular RE programs are up and running and ready to engage your kids in community building, service, and understanding what it means to hold a UU identity. You can get more info about all of the programs using the tabs above, but here’s a brief list of offerings:

• Nursery: Open and staffed 9:30-11:30am on Sundays, for babies and toddlers ages 6 weeks through 3 years.
• PreK-4th Grade: Meets in the Milk Room, following the Time For All Ages. Stories, LEGOs and other activities that connect to the Article II UU Values.
• 5th-7th Grades: Meets in the Carson Parlor, following the Time For All Ages. Learning about various groups and what they do at church, plus hands on activities working with those groups.
• 8th Grade Coming of Age: Meets 9:45-11:15 at 73 Court St. UU Rite of Passage program, registration required.
• Grades 9-12 (Senior Youth): Meets 4:00-5:30 at 73 Court St
• Our Whole Lives (OWL) Sexuality Education: Classes for elementary and middle school, registration is required.
• Sparks & Flames: Social group for grades 5-8, meets one evening per month for fun and peer connection.
• Families Tuugether: Evening of connection, fun and free child care for families! One Saturday evening per month.

A couple of other elements to know about:

• Multigenerational Worship: Approximately once per month. On those days, children and youth stay in the sanctuary and there are no RE classes for grades 7 and younger. This is an important way for all of us to deepen community and to raise kids who know what it feels like to worship together. More on Multigen Worship HERE. Multigen worship in October is 10/20.
• RE Registration: We ask families to register their kids (babies through high school) every year. The purpose of this is to make sure we have all updated information and everything we need to give our kids a safe, engaging, and positive experience at church and in our Religious Education spaces. Registering does not require regular participation or attending! Please register HERE as soon as you are able, or ask us for a paper form.
• Some Important Dates To Know This Month:
  • Families Tuugether, evening of connection, fun, and free child care!!–Saturday October 26th 5-8pm. RSVP to JenDB, more info HERE.
  • Halloween Social 10/31! All ages! There are several awesome parts to this:
    • Jack-o-lantern contest, for everyone, with prizes! Bring your carved pumpkin to church between 5-8pm to enter.
    • Bake Sale fundraiser 6-8:30pm, to support high school youth who will travel to Baltimore in June
    • Sparks & Flames Pumpkin Carving, for kids in grades 5-8. Thurs 10/31 6-7pm. After carving, pumpkins can be entered in the Jack-o-lantern contest! RSVP to JenDB
    • Watch the fascinatingly creepy Portsmouth Halloween Parade from the church yard as it comes by! church yard as it comes by!

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October Church Theme is “The Practice of Deep Listening”

• Book/story suggestions for this month: Read or watch videos of these stories…
  • “The Talking Stick” A retelling of a Sioux legend
  • “More Than Words: So Many Ways To Say What We Mean” by Roz MacLean: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kh9mOcuCuA
  • “The Very Quiet Cricket” by Eric Carle: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdiGEjz5b0Q
  • The Shambhala Warrior Prophecy: https://resources.soundstrue.com/podcast/ep-10-bonus-the-shambala-warrior-prophecy/
  • “Listen To Your Heart and Decide, A Moral Story”https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhU7iaMg65k
  • “We Are Water Protectors” by Carole Lindstrom: Video or book Inspired by Indigenous activism, the link to the book website also has a free family activity packet for taking action to protect water.
• Spiritual Decathlon: This is an exciting adventure open to people of all ages! This is a fun way to explore various kinds of spiritual practice each month. Read more HERE, and watch for it at church.
• October Shared Plate Organization: Our shared plate organization this month was chosen by South Church kids learning and voting during RE classes. The kids chose Dover Children’s Home. From their website: “We provide tools and support for youth to heal from emotional trauma through community-based treatment programs that foster relationships and enable youth to create hope for the future.” https://doverchildrenshome.org

Chalice Lighting For Meal Times:
From poet James Crews

“May we listen more deeply to each other and keep showing up at the table. Even when it’s difficult, even when there is only the silence between us.”